Ok there's this girl that goes to my school. Every time she seen me she would smile and wave at me and I sit with her at lunch she even got one of her friends to move in front of her friends (a girl) so I could sit next to her and one day she randomly sent me a msg about a month ago.
So last friday I asked her to a movie and she said yes and all that week she was talking about she can't wait and she was excited and I was so sweet. Then at the movie when we got there she gave me a really big hug and while we was walking I put my arm around her like a side hug because she was thanking me for the tickets and food and she like smiled even bigger after I did that and like came into me and we walked like that and also during the movie we was flirting and she said I was crazy jokingly and my hand was above hers and she grabbed my fingers and we started to hold hand the whole movie and everything we were both still acting same.
Texted her she won't reply after a certain time of texting and seem like she maybe acting a little different but she will still talk to me in the hall and she me a hug today but the past couple of days it seems like she might be acting a tad different maybe so I don't know if she likes me know or what is going on.
Update: Also I noticed today while talking to her she played with her hair while looking at me and her eyes seemed to be dilated she also offered me some of her cheese nips that she was eating for lunch. So does any of this mean anything?
6 months ago
It sounds like she was crazy about you before, during, and after the movies. but then she suddenly changed? like became distant? Or just not too into you anymore? Maybe you said something to her that upset her but you just don't know. or you offended her? Maybe you acted in a way that turned her off? Or maybe she saw you talking with another chick and got jealous? There are a lot of possible reasons for her odd actions. Try to go back to the first time you noticed she was acting different. or maybe a time when she didn't seem so "impressed" by something you did/say. Some girls aren't open when they are mad, or upset. They just play it off, and become distant for days, until the guy finally asks, or realizes what he did wrong. They leave the guy totally confused, thinking . "well, everything was good. the movie was good, the whole night was good. we were doing ok after that. so what happened?" If you really can't figure out what you did/say wrong, then ask her, "is there something bothering you?". Don't tell her you noticed she's been acting different. Just say, "you seem upset lately."
It could've just been the atmosphere of the movies that made her more into hugging you and such. If you like her so much and it's obvious she likes you too ask her out. Get the bottom line of how she feels. If she says no to going out then move on because she's a jerk for acting like how she did at the movies and sharing so much time with you. If she says she wants to wait, just be her friend. As in, no holding hands or arms around her because if she really wants that to happen then in the end, ya'll will go out.
I have a guy friend like you too. But for us it's after school, we would hug hold hands and stuff. But during school we would not 'do as much' (like only hugging) as we did when we were by ourselves (not with our friends). When your at school and she doesn't want to act like she did at the movies is because she doesn't know how you felt after the movies or how you are feeling about her period. She also doesn't want to seem too obsessed with you esp. After only a night of the movies and your not going out, but she still hugs you so you would think more of her and to get you to know how you really feel about her. Lastly the texting I agree with catgirl9 girls just don't want to seem eager.
Ok...so is what you're saying she does like me I just have to show her how I feel a little at a time? - 6 months ago
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I'm sure she likes you. as I said before she doesn't know how you feel. and yes you should show her how you feel a little at a time. try asking her to the movies again and see how she acts then. - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Yea, well last night we was texting and had done so for about 45 minutes. So I asked her did she want to hang out today and she never replyed back after I asked her that - 6 months ago
After going on a date with a guy and then seeing them in a different environment it can be awkward. That doesn't mean that she isn't into you, its just that she sees your more sensitive side (and that's not a bad thing) but she may just be adjusting to seeing that side to you. If that makes any sense don't worry about it and just be who you are. let me know if you have any more questions!
Ok thanks so now that she has seen my sensitive side do you think I should throw a little of it in every now and then nothing big just smaller things and also if I should what are some small things I can do - 6 months ago
Answerer
Yeah I mean don't be overly lovey dovey or anything like that, but just give her small compliments every once in a while and notice little things. Like "did you get a haircut? It looks good". Or something like that. Just don't over do it - 6 months ago
Well as a girl around the age you probably are this is the advice I can give you. If I went to a movie with a guy and we acted all flirty and cuddly, I would feel kind of, awkward afterwards. I might think I went a bit overboard and I pushed you away. She might be acting kind of more distant that you are used to because she might think she was too clingy that night. There is no doubt she likes you based on all the things she did. She is still hugging you too. It may seem to you she is acting too distant becasue you are looking for stuff she did that night of the movies. And about the texting, I never text a guy back immediately when he texts me, it seems to eager. Sometimes I don't text him back at all just to leave him thinking about me and waiting for a reply from me.
Ok. If she feels what you say then what do I need to do about that - 6 months ago
Answerer
I wouldn't do anything, just be cool. That will let her know you don't think she was too clingy. When she figures out that you didn't think she was too clingy she might start hugging on you and stuff again. - 6 months ago
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