Women's definitions of guys "coming on too strong"?

I can give you a good example because it has happened to me lately. I was contacted by this guy after he ran into me somewhere by e-mail. He asked me out and I said no at first but then he kept trying and trying so eventually I gave in. We hit it off great for about 2 months. He would e-mail me like everyday and was constantly trying to charm me. He would call all the time and I can't lie and say that I didn't like it but now all of that has changed. I think now he feels like he has me and I don't talk to him but a few times a week now. I don't recommend it because it can get someone's hopes up and make them start to change their mind about you. Don't start off wrong because it will ruin the whole thing that you have going on. Don't pretend to be someone that you are not because it never ends well.

I hate when they act like we are together after a few dates. I hung out with one guy like three or four times and then one weekend he text me Friday, Saturday, and Sunday asking to hang out. He knew I was up camping so I text him back and told him I couldn't, I was camping. Monday morning he sent me a message telling me it was bull sh*t that I had blew him off all weekend. To blow someone off you usually have to have plans with them and I didn't so he just assumed we did... creepy.
Another guy, I was out dancing and I danced one song with him. He asked for my number so I gave it to him. At the end of the night when I was going home he sent me a text that said, "I saw you dancing with other guys." Um, and?
Just don't ask for too much, like staying the night and things like that. Don't be clingy, don't expect her to always make time for you.