My crush and I don't know each other well, but lately I've been trying to hint that I like him. Based on these signs, do you think he got the hint:
--I compliment him often, usually on school-related stuff, since he's really smart. --I try to sit near him. Not NEXT to him, but still close. --I stare at him often, but usually look away quickly and he very rarely catches me in the act. --I asked him about learning English as a second language, recalling that he is from another country. --I often try to get in on a group conversation that he is participating in. --I smile almost constantly when I talk to him. --I asked him for his e-mail address, but to ask him about something specific. --I just told him via e-mail that I find him "very interesting" and said that something he did was "sweet."
So it's obvious? All right. Is that a good thing? - 4 months ago
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I don't know. it depends on the guy. if he thinks you desperately want to be with him/totally admire him = not a good thing. it's ok to show him that you like him, but you shouldn't exaggerate.
how does he react? does he smile back? does he seem interested in you? look closely how he acts towards you. - 4 months ago
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I hope I didn't come off as too infatuated. I feel like I may have gone a little far, though. Is there any way to fix that? - 4 months ago
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And he responds to my compliments with a smile and a thank you. He has shown some signs off interest, but did I go too far? Was it better for me just to let him know? - 4 months ago
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"I hope I didn't come off as too infatuated." I hope so, too. that's a turn off to most guys, but I guess you didn't come off as too infatuated. just calm down a bit. he'll notice it and he might wonder why you behave this way. most guys become more interested in girls who kind of ignore them (not totally ingore them) than in girls who keep on complimenting them/keep on showing them that they like them. it might bore him, so shift down a gear. you made the first move and now it's his turn. - 4 months ago
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Thanks for your help! I'll just stop e-mailing him and all that and just see if what he does. If he doesn't do anything, at least I never flat out told him I like him, right? ;). I am sort of glad I did it, because neither of us would have made a move otherwise. Do you think he needs time to soak this all in and I shouldn't expect a reply or what? If a girl said you were interesting, would you like that? - 4 months ago
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Yes, my guess is he needs time (not much, but a bit). I'd actually like it if a girl said I was interesting and smart. it's a better compliment (much more personal) than to tell a guy he's hot/cute or whatever average girls use to say.... - 4 months ago
if he doesn't get it then he is oblivious. there aren't many other ways to let him know. just look to see if he gives you any signals back and if so I think u'll know what to do.
Men often comment that they would love it if girls approached them first, but I have found that the very opposite is true. More often than not, a guy is turned off by what he sees as desperation....
“Does He Like Me” seems to be holding the fort in being one of the most popular questions, still. So I thought I add all the little things a guy would do, the subtle hints he shows and the silliness...
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