So here's the low-down. I'm in my economics lecture and I look over to my left and I see this girl who looks to be someone that I can totally get along with. I'm kind of shy, so I haven't approached her, but she's so distracting because all I can do is think about whether or not she's looking at me too. Can someone help me?
Try to sit next to her in your next few lectures. Before class one day just say something like "Man I'm worried about this test... Have you had this guy before?" or "That dude who keeps asking questions in the front row is annoying isn't he?" Something of that value. The first question will typically just get a simple response so make sure to follow it up with something. You want her to know that you want to talk to her not just a brush off convo so come up with something good...
Maybe she has a patch on her backpack that indicates something she likes or maybe you saw her reading a different class book and you've had that class before or maybe you've seen something in her notebook that could start the conversation. A good topic is Television shows like American Idol which is ok for you to watch and it is something she most likely will have seen or know something about. Try to keep the convo lite the first day and then just say hi the next day. Then start up a conversation again. If things hit off maybe invite her to lunch or something after class with you.
You should start up conversation kind innocently, not straight out flirting. I might suggest skipping class one day (or hide in the back row or something if she won't see you) then the following lecture say (hey sorry to bother you, do you think I could trouble you for notes from last class's lecture... I totally missed it...).... then proceed perhaps to say your name how much you'd appreciate it and that you'll bring her a latte....
just go and talk to her like any other girl you asked out beacuse if you asked her to study with you she's gona end up your study friend.and you don't wana be a friend don't you!so just go talk to her about something about the lecture.then ask her out nice and easy.and if she turnd you down that means she's not intrested.and if she's not then your not.
Haha hey, well first of all start sitting next to her, ask her if the seats taken from there introduce yourself and start a conversation get it flowing make her laugh. Don't forget to complement her. At the end of class ask her out to lunch and from there just go with the flow.
if the seat is taken try to catch her before class or after class and tell her that you have class with her then ask her what's the test on or if you can copy her notes then you introduce yourself and the conversation will start flowing!
Look at her and see if she looks back, if she does smile - after class say something to here about the class to get the conversation started. If she doesn't look back, or looks annoyed, forget about it - if after class she only lets you get out one or two lines before making an exit - forget about it as well. Cheers
Ok I had this same problem Different situation. I was told by some friends on here to take a deep breath and ask her out but I knew her. In your case, just start some small talk get to know her. The only thing you can do is try. Hope this helps
1) Introduce yourself casually. You're in the same class, so you've got that to talk about. Just flat out ask her something about class, like how hard she thought the last exam was or something. Be friendly, be a bit flirty, but don't act really interested. You want to keep this casual.
2) At a later time, ask her if she wants to meet up and study sometime. Don't mention any specific time, just sometime before an exam ask if she wants to meet. You won't be pulling a fast one, she'll know exactly what you're after at this point. In my experience, if she's not interested in you that way, she'll make an excuse not to, or try to put off scheduling anything. If she does that, you're probably best off just dropping it. Girls who are interested though will find time to meet (which is why you shouldn't mention a specific time, because then she might want to be genuinely not be available), even if you don't come up with a plan right away. Long story short, "going to study" is pretty much the de facto way to ask girls out from class and they should make it quite obvious whether they want to or not.
Ironically point one sounds just like my advice. Point two though is way off and I strongly disagree! If I guy asks me to study I would think he wanted to study not go out with me. If I said yes it would be because I thought he was smart enough to help. - 10 months ago
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You might be in the minority. I've been "turned down" using this method far too often for it to be a fluke. - 10 months ago
Reasons other then not liking you a girl would turn down the study offer. She might not be confident in the subject and not want to look stupid in front of you. She might think of your real reason and realize she actually needs to study not goof around - 10 months ago
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