Last Tuesday 21 I was running and jumping rope as interval he turns and looks at me in the eyes twice for the first time since I'm in the gym, it was the sweetest thing that could have happen to me is like kissing with the eyes ouuhhhh. I was so scared after that I panic when I went home; my best friends were shocked to hear that. I start imagine the worst maybe he wants to play, maybe he bet on my head but at the same time I could not forgot the look.
Monday 25, after my stretching I went front to warm up on the treadmill I thought he left, when he was down on the machine my lord he smiles at me and said hi.
I was so shocked; I said hi how you are? Low voice you could see just my mouth move. He seems happy a bit after. Me happy, confused, and scared. I am asking, what is going on now, why he react now? Till now I do not understand why now after a year. Today I went earlier to the gym I dress there because I had to go somewhere he was there running and happen that I sat to talk on the phone and pull out my protein shake to drink the flaxseed mix with it and I couldn't drink so when I stand to go to the bar I saw him running and looking at me and I freeze a moment like my god should I sit or still stand, I wanted to wave my hand but something told me no.
When I went to the bar I blackout and the guys were laughing at me you need a straw. I hate when I loose control because of him. Ouchhhhhh I blame myself all day long for that. Today even I couldn't breath I pass by him so hard for me I wave at him. He moves his mouth I do not know what he says for real I was too far and he was running.
I never felt thing like that before with others, I feel peace, complete. If I feel sad I think about him, he doesn't know how much is big what I feel. He makes me cry sometimes, dream, I swear I never feel so complete like that. What should I do I really want to know him. A girl told me about the eyes action but I didn't know he will do it so quick, so what else, I can't really tell if is shy after the first step he did help!
You both made contact - the worst is over now. Next time flirt with your eyes or hold his gaze and try to make it easy for him to approach you. Failing that he picks up the signal, work out beside him and say hi or hello and take it from there. Just don't blackout or faint on him. :)
Thank you I will try. to continue the flirt.I usually don't like to smile but I made a big effort to give it to him oh lord I swear he was really happy.And could not stop to flirt since. - 10 months ago
Please go up and talk to him, and if he gives you his number, think about something you would love to do with him. A movie, workout, a walk, coffee - then after you've calmed down from all that day dreaming, give him a call and expect some awkwardness. This usually happens the first time.
Then pop a question:
There's a movie, I've been meaning to see - I. E. 10,000 BC, up to catching it with me?
I've been meaning to try this new ab machine at the gym, but I'm not sure quite how to use it correctly (I like this one in a gym situation - guys love to help. )
Keep it casual, and after the first date/get together - you'll be able to relax.
girls I'm so glad you still helping me. Happen that he do not come often anymore everyone told me to talk to him. I will try. And let you know. Thank you for your support. - 9 months ago
I agree with Ionlife - the worst is over, and you definitely need to make some kind of effort on your end to let him know you're alive. This way you open up that distance and allow him room to talk to you.
Thank you I would like more advice if I should go and talk to him he seems to be shy a lot with me.Or if it happens that he give me his # should I call.??? - 10 months ago
Fransou19, he is obviously smitten with you hence why he appears to be quite shy around you. If you feel comfortable calling a guy, then definitely call him if he gives you his # or even better yet, just make plans on the spot. - 10 months ago
Answerer
Sure you should call! If he gave you his number, he's obviously interested. Call him up, say hi and don't forget to flirt, just so he knows it's okay to move to the next level and move on into a date. - 9 months ago
Question Asker
Thanks Iodine and Kaleina for all your support but my heart is so broke now even a supper glue never fix it. I still try to not believe everything they told me. I don't even know how I will try to not forget him. I feel so stupid of telling my friends that I had that crush now they all laughing at me that I have been played. It hurts so bad. Thanks again. - 9 months ago
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