Okay, so over the weekend I met a really pretty/sweet girl and I basically spent a full day with her. She didn't know very many people in the group we were in, so I hung out with her for a while and we became friends. Later, we were in a room and she did something that absolutely KILLED me. She was standing around 5-6 feet away and started to sort of side step towards me and then she leaned up against the wall besides me. The best way I could describe it is that we were cuddling. My favorite part though is that when she did all this, she acted like I wouldn't notice. When that happened, my heart melted on the spot. I was so charmed I didn't even realize that she probably wanted to hold my hand. Anyways, the day went on and we kept talking a bit. When we were about to leave, I remembered that I didn't ask her for her phone number and so I set off to find her. And (straight out of a Disney movie) she had already left. The next time I have a chance of seeing her is in a month! What I was wondering is if anyone thinks she'll still remember/like me by then? Another thing that is on my mind is that I'm pretty sure I've got "LoveSickness". I haven't eaten anything for a day because every time I think about her, my stomach tightens up. Any advice?
Lol well according to the kinda day you had with her I would say that YOU SHOULD WAIT FOR HER! Spend that month in "love sickness" if you have to! Ha I mean she did melt your heart. And of course she'll remember you. She can't forget you. Who knows maybe you are on HER mind.
In time being, maybe you should figure a plan as to what you can do and how you can let her know that you like her. Every time you think of her. Smile. Smile because you knw its for the sake of your "dream girl" and that you'll meet her in a month! And if you can't eat. Eat like you know that SHE hasn't eaten for a while and that you wanna satisfy HER stomach. Yeah its kinda cheesy but as long as it works. Its worth it. Lol
I hope you guys click right back in and have the best time ever and as you wait for the month to go by. You can totally feel like the month is gonna be worth it.
Try to hold out for another month! I'm sure she will remember you. In the meantime, try to think of what you'll do the next time you see her, what you'll say. It seems like you guys had a lot of chemistry, and if it's mean to be, it's meant to be! If somehow she does manage to forget you, or you guys can't pick up like you did before, you should probably move on. There are many other fish in the sea, but hopefully you can catch this one! =] Good luck!
I think she will remember you. If you really want to try to contact her at all, you could mention how you liked talking to her or hanging out with her to one of the people who does know her. They could pass that along to her and possibly facilitate some form of contact between the two of you. You could try Facebook or something too, though it might be better if she just heard through a mutual friend that you were talking about her and thinking about her. Make sure you do try to get her information the next time you see her though. It's hard to tell from what information you posted whether she was as into you as you are into her, but it sounds like she at least liked you a little if she spent the whole day in your company and then was pretty much leaning on you. :)
Yeah, I've actually been calling people all night, but apparently nobody knows her very well and I'm kind of starting to feel foolish for being suckered in like that :D Well, I'm going to school tomorrow and I might be able to find someone who knows her. - 10 months ago
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Good luck to you! I hope someone can at least give you a lead. It sounds a little stalkerish, but you could try looking her up on Google and seeing if that takes you any closer. Just make sure you don't say that's how you found her, heh. ^. ^ - 10 months ago
Slow down, Breath and take a step back. You have been flattered by a girl who probably could of though of a million things on why she wanted to do this - not a girl here, so get their perspective. But If I were you, and you got a month, start getting yourself together so that when you do see her, you are your normal charming self, and she is still comfortable around you.
And I'm sure she is going to be busy between now, and the next time you see her, but I'm sure something will remind her, of you, at least once in a while. And she'll probably remember you when she sees you again.
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