I like this guy at work. And I've patted him on the shoulder, the back and even brushed some fuzz off of his cheek. I put my arm around the back of his shoulder when we were laughing about something. He doesn't pull away, but I want him to know I dig him. Without seeming needy/desperate. He hasn't touched me till this morning. When I was asking for his help on something and he put his hand on top of my shoulder and squeezed a bit, saying back "no, it's ok, you're not bugging me". To ME, that seems like he is interested, but he might be that way to other people too. I don't know him that well yet. I know we enjoy talking together, and he is coming back this afternoon to help me on something else so I need to be ready. PLEASE HELP!
First of all, men in their 30's don't "touch" unless we at least "like", so you're in the running.
Remember two things, you have the advantage. 1. You're a lady, and that's what every man really wants. 2. He must like you a little bit, since he said "no, it's ok, you're not bugging me", because if I don't like a babe, I wouldn't waste my time with her.
He does seem interested; play coy, like you know how to. I don't mean bend over in front of him, but I do mean smile, be nice, and be pleasant - you'd be surprised how far this goes!
He's into you, but he might have a girl friend - you better ask. Also, hook-ups on the job are kinda frowned upon - when you two are out of anyones site - write your number down on paper, then when he's not expecting it, kiss him on the cheek while putting your number in his hand, and say "call me", then run off to somewhere else on the job - your gonna have to do something like this, because I doubt he'll make a move on the job if he's half-smart. Cheers.
The "number slap-cheek kiss-dash". I like it. Just found out -major roommate eviction drama. I need to wait a bit. I offered some advice on apartment locations and he said "thanks, dear". Not sure if that was a reaction like you'd say to your sister? - 6 months ago
His belly and/or zipper area? If you think touching his member area is desperate, I don't mean grabbing it just play around that area. Get close to him and touch your fingers on his tummy, I guess. Guys rarely resist being touched by women, and if he hasn't touched you till recently, that means he's not the type who likes to touch women, or proly even guys for that matter, whom he views are mere friends.
Grabing his hands and hold it when you guys are walking, touching his thigh. Hope this help ^ ^
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