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Sorta cold shoulder?

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newyorkmike (Age:25 to 29)     When: 10 months ago
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So I have this female friend who came to the city few days ago with her friend. They're both from Chicago. Me and this female friend are total platonic (no romance at all). But anyways, we all went up to Boston together to check it out. During the time up there, I had a lot of good talks with the friend of my friend who I thought was super cool and cute. On the way back to the city, we had great convos because my friend was dozing off and I really felt like we connected well. At the end of our trip she even seemed like she wanted to stay in touch.

However, it turns out that I got the chance to see both of them against yesterday night. The only thing was that this time, this girl was like a totally different person. She was like super quiet/shy/cold (not sure what the right word is) around me. She eventually loosened up a bit and made small chat here and there throughout the night, but it was totally different. Like we had both been really comfortable and connecting with each other only a few days ago. But this time she was all awkward (or so seems to me) and just didn't seem at ease.

I'm really confused and wondering if you all can help me out? I don't wanna ask my friend about this girl (cause that's a different story), but I don't know? I don't usually get hooked on a girl after only meeting her once, but this time a few days ago -- I really felt connection and was excited about seeing her again yesterday night. But now feel kinda down?


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sequinfanrple (Age:30 to 35)      When: 10 months ago
Could this "different story" be the reason that you are getting the cold shoulder from this girl you like? I could be wrong
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Question Asker Huh? What different story? - 10 months ago
Answerer Sorry should have made myself clear, you said you didn't want to ask your friend bout her friend cause that's a different story - 10 months ago
 

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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
She felt comfortable before because she thought she wouldn't run into you again anytime soon. Also people seem to make connections when traveling - I believe the phrase is "single serving friends". She could tell right away when she saw you the next time that you are into her, and she clearly is not into you - bet you dollars to dough nuts she is already seeing someone. Sorry gov'na.

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SemiShy (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
Uhhh, that has never happened to me. But there is a bi-polar kid who sits in front of me in class and he acts like that
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