Ok can you fall in love with a friend? And if you had different intentions at the beginning of a friendship could you fall into your own game? Help me out please.
Update: Me and him do get along we cuddle up and I think he likes me too or else he wouldn't be coming to visit me late at night he can't come early because he works but yeah we do I asked him what we were he said friends but I don't know.
10 months ago
I'd say yes to both. You can fall in love with a girl you had no intention to love. Similarly, if you were befriending a girl with the intention of hopefully getting with her, this can fade as you learn to care about her and want to be her friend and look out for her more, even if in your opinion that was to not love her.
No. I have a rule: if there's no spark within 2 weeks of knowing someone - there a friend or associate. Same applies here. You could date, fall in love, have sex... and you'll realize when you break-up, you never should have been more then a friend to begin with.
I'd say that it can surely happen. Is it worth it, I would ask? I don' think that there is a way of telling if you should ban yourself from having a love relationship with a friend or not. Let me put it this way: I did once:) And I didn't mean to. - 10 months ago
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No, it is not worth it, as you should have just been friends. If there are no sparks w/in 2 weeks, your trying to make something happen; when things are forced together, they generally don't stay together, unless its a matter of survival and not of love. - 10 months ago
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