do you approach a girl only for your own self confidence and have no real interest in pursuing her to begin with, just trying to work through your low self esteem or low self image.
OR
you pursue a girl just because you like her and interested in her.
IF you are rejected ) esp if she laughed at you , you probably will take it rejection by her)... how do you manage to cool down.. when after several day she becomes friendly. you don't show interest in her. when she later on apologizes.. why is it you ignore it.
Update: but when she is apologizing.. why would be so rude and tell her I have nothing to say. actually it happened to me. after that I got very angry with him and said: everything was joke for you.
7 months ago
Update: form then onwards we don't talk. all he does just look or glances. . what do you think the guy is thinking ?
7 months ago
Update: actually before I could apologize. its been three weeks I was friendly with him. like , its always I who had to make an effort to talk to him. he would respond but not show any interest.
7 months ago
Update: i didn't apologize immediately. rather I went and spoke to him. he was good and fine. but he would make any effort to talk except maybe in a friendly manner. after some weeks I had texted him asking to open up and apologize
7 months ago
Update: i went and spoke to him after a week.
7 months ago
Uhhhh well if YOU laughed in his face, then obviously he will be rude to you. I mean, how would you feel if you liked a guy and told him, and he just looked at you and laughed. You wouldn't feel to great would you? And if he said sorry you'd still have some resentment. I don't see how you have a right to be angry when you are the cause of this problem.
I think that he is thinking, "what's that girls deal? she laughs at me then gets mad when I'm rude to her, even though she was the one who hurt me".
Why, do you actually like this guy or what? Why do you really care?
I would only approach a girl if I was interested in her, and liked her. If she rejects me by laughing, I'd probably cool down by working out or listening to music, or both. I also meditate in the park so that would also help.
Even if she apologizes I'd probably still ignore her, if only because laughing in someone's face is pretty cruel. I'd have nothing to do with her and write her off as a waste of time. If her apology was very heart felt and she said she'd actually like to go out, then I'd probably take it with a grain of salt and go out with her.
How to properly approach a girl is is probably one of the biggest problems for single guys. Either a guy is too shy and doesn't know how to approach a beautiful woman, or the guy thinks he's "the man"...
Let's face it, they call it the dating game for a reason. The mating ritual between males and females, human or otherwise, involves some serious interplay. Guys have to be strong, strut their stuff...
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