I'm kinda trying to get over my ex-girlfriend. Well recently me and her old roommate have started talking more. We've been on 2 date this week. On the first date she was all shy and but interested. We ate dinner and ended up at my apt. She was like let me get a picture of us to show my mom. Well while at my apt we talk about both of our break ups and finds out we both were engaged. So while watching the movie I ask her what she looking for. She response with I'm not looking for a relationship because I want to be free and I response with the same answer. So 15 mins past and I tell her my real name which I never tell anyone cause I'm known for my nick name and no one in college know it. So as time go on I'm like give me a kiss and she jumps at the chance. We make out for like 30 mins. Well today I ask her to go on a date again and she like ok. Well while at dinner she ask me how many girls I'm talking to and I told her I kicked all of them to the side last month. So she was like well I'm not look for a relationship again and I was like ok. Well she was like I want to come over but I got a lot of homework. Well later tonight she text me saying she wished she would have want out with me to the bar and hangout more, but I had a lot of homework. She also tells me that her mom think I'm cool. So I'm wonder should I continue talking to her or leave it alone. Tonight we are going to the movies and I want to know what she may be thinking. She over her ex and hates him, but she know me and my ex still are friends.
Hm is the girl and your ex friends? That is in the "girlfriend" code book not to do. If so she sounds kinda like a backstabber. On the other hand, she seems like she is wanting to make time for you and hang out with you. If she has said she doesn't want anything serious then she obviously doesn't. She wants someone to go out and have fun with.
First, I would ask if you really believe she is over her ex and hates him. From your description, it sounds as if she does not know what she wants and that may be a result of unresolved issues with an ex. She doesn't want to be left out in the cold, has an attraction to you, yet downplays the thought of a more significant relationship with you. I would take this as something to give you pause. If you enjoy spending time with her then continue to do so but it appears as if she needs to make the next move.
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