There is this girl I know who goes out with this guy, and every time she is around him she acts out. Like laughing real loud and dancing and umping up and down and just plain acting stupid in my opinion. Do guys really like when girls do that? Should I start doing that so that my crush will like me?
Laughing at his jokes is a good idea. I'm naturally a really funny guy (not trying to brag) but I can make any girl (or guy) at my school laugh at anything but I what I love more than anything is making the girl that I like laugh.
Well it depends, if your hoping for a one night stand then ya acting crazy is probably better than acting proper. If you go and rub up against the guy and act like a total fool he will treat you like one which also means that he's going to look at you as less than the bar and just use you for sex. Of if he's better than that he will probably just reject you (depending on the guy it might be a very hard and sarcastic rejection which is probably the worst). If you want to get a guy that's as close to perfect as possible (ie, handsome, smart, and nice) then you need to hold yourself in a way that will attract him, I. E. Nice, intelligent and socially responsible.
Like attracts like, if you act like a fool you will attract a fool. If you act intelligent and proper you will attract someone intelligent and proper. Relationships are supposed to be mutual so if one person is too different from the other then the relationship will fail.
There's a definite line between acting cute and acting just plain psycho and unstable.
Laughing at his jokes is a definite yes. Being a little crazy or silly are sometimes a good flirtation too.
Acting off the wall neurotic and really overly sexual can be exciting and attractive to someguys, but it will scare many away, and even those who like it may be turned off after awhile, especially if you act that way towards everyone, because they will feel like you are flirting with other guys or just plain don't like them.
Not to mention that your probably not going to develop any type of healthy relationship if you have to always be acting to make him interested in you. I think its a big mistake to try to change a man's perception of you to make him like you. He has to like who you really are.
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