This girl was in my class last semester, and she always sat with her other girlfriends. I never noticed anything unusual and never paid them any attention.
This semester, this girl is in my class along with another friend. They started the semester sitting near the front. I started noticing, however, after a month into the semester that they would turn and look at me 1-2 times at the beginning of the class. I would always avoid their gazes.
Things really started picking up when they would deliberately sit in the row in front of me. Once, the friends I normally sat with were late to class, and that girl and her friend seized upon the opportunity to sit on my row as well. Luckily, they weren't directly next to me.
Then, for an entire week, this girl would come to class early and sit directly in front of me with her friend. She even got up in and took off her jacket. I noticed that both her and her friend flicked their hair every 10 minutes during class.
In another instance, when it was test day, I managed to get into class early and sat where I normally sat. We were all spaced out, so this girl and her friend sat two rows in front of me; however, the one girl that has been sending me more signs managed to sit in my position, just two rows up. When my friend asked if I was going to the front of the room to put up my backpack, I said yes but forgot I had to wrap my headphones around my iPod. Immediately, that girl stood up, walked to the end of her row, looked back, and saw her mistimed moment.
Now, her friend doesn't even show up to class. The teacher is so boring, but she manages it to make to class in a timely fashion. She sits several rows behind me. Last class, someone got called out for talking loudly, so I turned to see who it was; in the process, my eyes met with the girl who has been flirting with me.
Basically, I'm not interested in a relationship. I have too much drama in my life as it is, and this is not what I want right now. Moreover, this girl already has a boyfriend; in fact, she spent spring break with him and two other couples at a beach resort.
I always welcome friendships, but I hate it when girls, especially those involved with another girl, make it all the more complicated.
Hence, I have two questions. Why does she flirt with me when I have never sent her any signs of the like, and what should I do?
Say man I read this you know if you don't want a relationship shit take the opportunity do her fool no lie if I was in that position I would do them both at the same time or different times but be careful and don't let the boyfriend find out cause if he does your screw. Ahaha but take that opportunity be friends with benefits with both of them and you can get some whenever you want. Trust me man
Well, it's one only that's really interested in me. She shows up to one of the most boring classes despite the fact that none of her crew shows up. Also, they hang out with a lot of people who have beef with me to settle. Again, I would like friendship, but I don't know how to approach this situation. It seems if I make a move now, then she'll think I'm interested in her in the wrong way. - 5 months ago
Okay do you think it's wrong to flirt with other guys/girls if you already have a boy/girl friend. Like if it's just flirting and you know it won't...
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