Ok, so. I've found that I'm always pretty confident and outgoing talking to guys (or strangers in general) when I'm around my close girlfriends. However, if I'm in a class alone with no friends to talk to, it's suddenly way harder for me to make a peep and get to know people. I'm not sure if it's my self esteem or not - I don't think I'm unattractive, so I'm not sure how much this has to do with it or not.
Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence/self esteem level when I'm somewhere by myself so I can talk to people?
What types of things do I say to them?
How can I successfully flirt with someone I don't know when I'm so shy by myself?
I'm starting to get frustrated with my lack of friends/potential guys at school.
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
I'm the same I'm all outgoing ,and easy to talk to when with friends but not when on my own and its really starting to ruin my life were school and making new friends are concerned and I can't meet guys because of it either I don't know how to change! So I actually would really love to hear peoples advice on this.
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