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How can I let a guy know that I like him?

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JOJO51991 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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without telling him or looking like a total slut?


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Android
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Android      When: A month ago
Why not take help of some common and reliable friend. Ask her/him to get few information like what he thinks about you? If he has some one else in his mind. Or he also likes you but want you to take the first step or he may be preparing him self but don't have enough courage. There are infinite number of possibilities.

Before that make a him your good friend. Once you know better he automatically come to you and express his thoughts.

Have a happy love life.
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jimmajam
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jimmajam      When: 5 months ago
Seriously, just tell him. Straight up. You're an adult now. How could you look slutty for telling him? Looking slutty would be flaunting your stuff all up on him without getting to know him.
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rustyfromaust
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rustyfromaust      When: 5 months ago
WTF people! Is this even a serious question or a p*ss take?

Why not just tell him? You a good looking bird so he'll be happy you hit him up and he didn't have to be all nervous etc

Telling a dude you like him = looking like a total slut?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? WTF

If you told him, "I wanna suck your d***", like old mate said then yeah sure you might look like a slut or a chic with a sense of humor and confidence that knows how to break the ice...

But as for old mate's "I wanna suck your d***" his spot on with the DIRECT approach. If not the next question you lodge will be, we went out and I want to kiss him -> how do I do that? -> then sex then etc etc.

GET SOME BALLS and don't play f***ed up games! Bloody chics always whinge about games in relationships...YOU JUST KICKED OFF!

- Rusty from Aust

PS All the chics that just said...*I know what you mean* waah waah cry* TAKE NOTE! You bring it on yourselves!
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Kussmaul
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Kussmaul      When: 5 months ago
play with ur hair when ur talking to him brush ur hair behind ur ear its a body sign of attraction
give him compliments when he deserve them like a haircut or if he's starting to work out
hope that helps:)


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TheInfotainer
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TheInfotainer      When: 6 months ago
People love receiving compliments. It's not about looking cheap ... but we recognise that someone likes us when we they say nice things.

It doesn't have top be "Oooooh, I really fancy you"! Say ... "do you know something, you have really nice eyes" or "YOU are really funny" or "can I say, you are nice to be around, you make me feel good".

Can you see... it's simple compliments but that sho how you feel. You might say these to a good girlfriend too! But to a guy, they'll carry a different, deeper meaning especially IF he is interested back!

Good luck

John
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dean22
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dean22      When: 6 months ago
take it easy sista and don't hold your breath ...abviousely your'e atrractive to him in this case
i advise you don't get any intention to him..give him some time to know you..
you've got to find a way that he'll be talk to you..sit with you..listen to you plans
make him see your beautiful smile...your good look
but the most imporant thing is never ever make him feel like you're trying
to win his heart
now it's up to you

please accept my passing...malek from algeria
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 6 months ago
Letting a guy know you like him isn't the same as being a slut. A slut is someone who sleeps with someone without even knowing them. Definition of being "easy".
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Question Asker So I'm not being easy if I confess to him.do you think he will think I'm stupid? - 6 months ago

drummerdude25
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drummerdude25      When: 6 months ago
Why would you look like a slut? I mean just because I show interest in a girl doesn't make me look like a man-whore...

Just act interested, be cool and offer to hang-out sometime. If he finds you pretty, nice, and really cool personality-wise. he's gonna like you. Its just how guys work.

Good luck!
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Question Asker Thaks - 6 months ago

Chris19425
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Chris19425      When: 6 months ago
if you see him walk up to him and start a conversation and make eye contact.
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Question Asker Really?his done that tons of times.but he is always saying things out of the ordinary - 6 months ago

naughtyboy
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naughtyboy      When: 6 months ago
see 90% of male population goes for curves and looks.if you think you fulfill at least 60% of the basic criteria,now try these things and he will be bounded to respond.
1)whenever you talk or walk by him look into his eyes ,deep, repeatatively.maximum 3secs
2)whenever he looks at you give a wide,genuine smile,as if your 32 teeth can be seen.
3)play with your hair while talking to him or looking at him from a distance.
4)ask him later onwards,"are you single?",yes ,say this,don't panic.it's no harm.you will not be slapped.girls are blessed more than guys.
5)comment on him.don't say "you dick so hard".lol.ex: " your smile is cute", "wow you got a deep dimple"> the idea is to encourage him to come near you.
6)a must.give him space.don't crowd him.carry on the above 5 points at irregular intervals with space in between.
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Answerer N if you see he is responding well go kino--touch him . his elbow area,maybe wrist.not more than that.because ur aim is " without telling him or looking like a total slut?" - 6 months ago
Question Asker Wow.thanks for the help. - 6 months ago

BADBOY_IDGAF
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BADBOY_IDGAF      When: 6 months ago
Anything but "I wanna suck your dick" and you'll be fine
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Question Asker Ok.thanks.i would neva say that.its wierd - 6 months ago
rustyfromaust I don't know mate. I reackon that would work. He'd get the idea... - 5 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
...wow you must really new at this, or your a natural slut who flirts too much
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brokensmile Wow. I don't really think you're helpful. What was the point of that? - 6 months ago
BADBOY_IDGAF What are you talking about?
This is the best anwser I seen so far. - 6 months ago

JimSmits
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JimSmits      When: 6 months ago
Sometimes it's easier just to let him know, but I was in high school once and I realize that that's not easy. Hope it works out!
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
next time he walk by just say hi
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advicegiver
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advicegiver      When: 6 months ago
Flirt with him, it doesn't have to be slutty. Try making eye contact for about 2 seconds and then look down and bite your lip or play with your hair shyly. It's hard to miss, and it says you're definitely interested, but a little bit shy and certainly not slutty.
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Hazeylikeday
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Hazeylikeday      When: A month ago
well grl, unfortunately, I kno exactly how you feel.
but I think tht you should just get to kno the guy and get to b really good friends w him. then let him kno how you fell by your body language. it tells a lot. but on the other hand, some guys can b really cluelss. some guys can appear to b flirting, but are really just being friendly. and you don't have to look like a slut to get guys attention. guys who are after tht are not worth your time if they only want ass. so, just be really friendly and use ur body language to your advantage, but don't over do it. (dont give lap dances) hahaha
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brokensmile
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brokensmile      When: 6 months ago
Hey. I know exactly what you mean. this stuff can get really touchy. Well I have been in the same spot. I think whenever you pass by him saying hi to him is a must. Also, occasionally softly touch his arm or shoulder as you're passing by with a soft "hi". Don't hang around, just glide on by. It drove my guy crazy before we admitted we liked each other. He said it showed that I wasn't desperate, but at the same time It showed him I was interested. When you're walking with him, make sure you let him talk more and seem interested in what he's saying. It makes him feel important. If there is any big upcoming events such as a game (if he's on a team) wish him goodluck. Or if it's a special day for him like a birthday make sure you say happy birthday. Always smile and him and even let him catch you looking at him a few times. Once he does keep eye contact for a few seconds and smile. Maybe add a small wave. Also, when talking to him don't stand too close (slutty) stand just the right distance that it is obvious that you are walking with him. It lets any other girls know that he's busy right now. [It certinaly worked for me lol. When girls saw me wlaking with him they would immeidately disperse away]
Also, flirting is KEY. Laugh at his jokes, even if they're not that funny and even make a few of your own. I used to crack stupid jokes all the time and he thought I was cute for it. softly touch his bicep, but don't overdo it. You have to make sure there is room for him to chase you. Guys don't like it handed to them on a platter. They like to chase it.
Overall if you just be yourself and do the things above, he should definitely get the hint. I did and eventually it got so obvious that we like each other I just told him and he was extatic lol.
I hope I helped you! I know I wrote waaay too much, but I have a lot of experience in this category. lol.
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