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Should I just go for it?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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This girl that I like sometimes seems to like me but I'm not sure if she truly does. Weve been friends for over 3 years now and Im 99% sure that she liked me the first year and then only 25% sure the next year but not its like 50%. Whenever I distance from her and stop talking to her as much then she seems to like me more but then when I act the same way towards her then she acts like she's just a friend. Ive never actually "asked her out" but when I have asked her out to a group thing she said yes and started to act weird and then after that she kept staring at me for a week. Then at the beginning of the month I asked her to dance with me at my schools dance and she did but after that it was like nothing ever happened. Should I just go for it and ask her out even though she doesn't seem to respond to me making advances on her.

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Cotton-Candy-Summer (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
Yes, I think you should go for it . What do you have to lose ? You asked her to dance and she said no, but you remained friends and things don't sound like they got too weird . It's likely that, if you ask her out and she says no, you can continue to be her friend . But more importantly, if you don't ask her out, you will never know what her answer will be and you may miss out on your chance to date her . Good luck !
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Question Asker Correction: when I asked her to dance she said YES - 9 months ago
Answerer Oh, sorry . I guess it's a plus that she said yes to dance . I still think you should go ahead and ask her out . Again, good luck ! - 9 months ago

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grahamcrackers93 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
It seems like she likes you but is unsure of the situation . That's why it seems she doesn't react . Inside, she's probably deciding how you feel and if she feels the same way about you . Give her time and just do more group stuff . She'll probably come around soon if she's interested .
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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
YES, although it may be too late - she may already be seeing someone else - you should have done this years ago .

Ask her "out" already - I think this girl thinks you don't like her enough to ask her out for romantic interests - see, if you had asked her out for real, and not to do something with your friends, you wouldn't have spent the last 3 years "wondering" and would have "known" .

Just ask her out and don't bring friends or go a setting where your friends are - go somewhere private, or at least a public setting that isn't full of your fellow class mates, like that dance .

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