I know this guy and he comes to my house a lot with all my friends for movie nights and stuff, and he's really nice and funny and caring and when its just us he's fine with like laying on the couch with me and stuff but when we're around other people its like he doesn't want anything to do with me and he just starts acting like a jerk . So I wanna know which one is the way he really feels, what does it mean when a guy does this ?
At his age, it may be embarrassing for him to reveal his feelings and vulnerability in front of other people . It's a matter of pride . If you two were exclusively dating each other, he'd be more likely to act like your boyfriend .
This behavior is actually pretty common among young people, and it has to do with the unwillingness to be seen as "tied down" or "uncool . " I understand that it's sort of insulting, since it implies that you would only drag him down, but I don't think he means it to be that way .
He likes you but maybe he likes one of your girlfriends more and he doesn't want her to see that he is flirting with you because then he will have no chance with her . That or he doesn't want to be teased by his guy friends .
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would take my date to a place we both can enjoy. maybe her favorite restaurant and a movie, check out a show or maybe hang out at the beach. at the end if we both connect and I feel she likes me, I would end it with a kiss.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I am a very fun person. will know exactly how I feel about her. and everything else she would want to know, as I would want trust and honesty.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
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