Girls: How can a guy tell you he likes you?

At the start I would prefer for a guy to stick to doing nice things for me, but once I know him a bit better of if we're already friends and have both been flirting, it would absolutely melt me if a guy simply looked into my eyes and said "I really like you". Taking my hand in his when at a moment when I'm not really expecting it is also really cute.

We love it when guys do nice things for us and say nice stuff to us, its usually what makes us for for them in the first place, and when you think the time is right like when you know there is something between you, then you should just tell her upfront about how you feel and let her respond.

No compliments at all in the beginning, I think (except maybe friendly, basic ones like "I really like hanging out with you"), just actions until you get to know her better . Otherwise she may think you're invasive and assumes too much . Once you know her a little bit, you can be more blunt . I'd take "I really like you" over "you're cute" any day, but maybe that's just me .

On the other hand, some girls like bossy, flirty guys who showers them with compliments all the time, but if you were that type of guy you wouldn't really be here, would you ? :)
Or what do I know, just guessing .

Yes ! All of the above ! But, for me, a guy has to earn some credibility before the direct "I really like you" conversation . Start by doing some nice things for me, and paying me some nice compliments . Then take me out to dinner, and look into my eyes, and say "I really like you", and you've probably got me .

The best way to be direct because if you think about it ... you can do nice things for girls and they still will say ... well you never told me ... I think because we like to hear it sometimes .. lol .. but you can you can just tell her that you like her and would love the opportunity to hang out 2 get to know her better. And don't do the same boring things Dinner and a Movie ... that is so played. Try 2 be creative and stand out ... try something that would bring the inner child out ... like a Dave & Busters if you have that where you live. Or try asking her how her weekend was and pay attention to the things she likes ... like if she likes a certain genre of music ... find out if there is a concert coming soon or she like comedy find out about upcoming shows ... so on and so forth. The key is to be different everybody does the dinner and a movie ... it's whats most comfortable. Think outside the box! write me back if you want to know anything else ...

I think a combination of the two but don't go overboard otherwise you could scare the girl away. I am a hopeless romantic so I love romantic gestures :)

A little bluntness would be nice . That way one doesn't have to play the guess what he's thinking game . Leading up to that moment of confession, hints would be most greatful so the girl is not caught up in so much surprise she doesn't know what to do !

At first I like it when he just spends time with me . Then I like it how he does nice stuff but if you feel like your crush isn't getting the message after that then I would just come right out and tell her you like her .