I'm falling for my guy friend and I don't know what to do. I haven't known him very long a month if that but I feel like it's been forever. Ever since I've got to college he tries to make sure I'm always happy and comfortable. I'm really shy and he seems to take the extra time just to make sure I'm okay. He even talked me into running for student senate which is really a stretch for me considering I'm super shy. (He's on the senate btw) He actually believes in me, which is something a guy has never done for me. It's pretty obvious why I like him.
I'm freaking out now. I really like this guys but there's only one problem...okay a lot of problems. First of all I have never in my life had a boyfriend so I don't know how I'm suppose to act or what to do. Second of all he is absolutely gorgeous and all the girls want him...really pretty girls. I've never thought of myself as ugly but compared to these girls I might as well be Quasi Modo. I feel like when he has all these other girls why would he ever want me. Not that he dates them don't get me wrong it's just I'm not the prettiest girl on campus and I'm so shy and awkward.
I know he at least likes me as a friend because he really looks out for me. I even thought he might like me for about a day. The first week of school I texted him and asked him what he was doing and he had to explain he was at a restaurant, "but I"m not dating just here with friends." Why would he tell me that when we just met and we've never talked about him love life at all.
IDK this is really long and I'm venting. I just really want to get closer to this guy and I don't know what to do. I'm sick of being the single girl. I found someone I really like and I think it's my turn. I mean I can't be doing everything wrong if he wants to spend time with me.
Just go spend time with him more. And don't say you ugly compared to the other girls he might like you for your personality too. Its not all about looks and being flawed isn't bad. Its little flaws here and there that can make you different from others and just that much more attractive.
Thank you so much for the encouragement. You made me feel so much better! I think I might ask him if he wants to hang out tomorrow after class. - 2 months ago
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Good you should do that and yea never feel bad like your not "the perfect girl" because a guy is should like you for who you are not what you think you should be. - 2 months ago
I think you just being you and letting him know you appreciate him for being there for you, such as helping you gain the confidence to run for senate. I can see where it might look like he really likes you that way, but just hang out with him more as a buddy. Once you feel totally comfortable with him, it will show and your new found confidence may actually swing him into action. but don't push the subject, let it flow naturally and perhaps mutual feelings will develop :)
This sounds positive to me. There's no reason for him to tell you he wasn't on a date unless he wanted you to know that. I agree to just keep taking the opportunities you get to be with him, and see where it goes.
And he's not perfect. He might seem like he is, but he's not. He probably has plenty of flaws that he could name, maybe some that you wouldn't consider flaws at all - just like you!
Please work on your self-talk - I'm shy and awkward are not good things to say to yourself. What are the things you like about yourself? Focus on those, it will make you happier.
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