The blurry line between friendship and something more . Could I have blown what we could have had, or maybe there was nothing to be had in the first place ?
HERE'S THE DIRT: 1 . HE ASKED ME WHO I LIKED ! I panicked and asked why he wanted to know . He said he was bored . He kept bugging me the whole time and he said he'd tell me who he liked if I told him who I liked . I told him to find something else to entertain him . I BLEW IT . I want to bring back the topic but am too embarrassed to do so . Guys help me out, could he possibly have liked me or was he just bored like he says he is ? How do I re-open the topic without sounding . Lame . I don't want to show I'm interested if he isn't !
2 . Sometimes he acts like he wants to spend time with me . We did go out once and had a lot of fun . It wasn't a date . Just me and his friends . He asked me to hang out . Then when I reciprocate and show I want to spend time with him, he's unavailable . Or he doesn't seem to want to .
3 . GUYS, if you don't like the girl, why act interested ? He hugs me, he tickles me, plays with my hair, gets in my way when I'm trying to pass and just does stuff to get my attention . Basic flirting . I flirt back . I KNOW he flirts because his friends always tell him off for it jokingly .
But lately things have started to cool off . Did I do something wrong or am I letting out the wrong vibes, or does he not like me anymore ? =[ This is making me sad, I really like him . His smile, the way he makes me laugh, everything !
4 . WHAT IF he thinks I like his friend ? Because he made a comment recently about how I missed his buddy . "DO you miss your boyfriend ? Whoops, I mean, the guy you WANT to be your boyfriend . " I DON'T want him to think I like his friend . I make him see I like him, I flirt with him a lot, should I flirt more ?
Sometimes he acts like he likes me but then sometimes he doesn't . NOTHINGS HAPPENING !
I lot of people say he likes me because of the way he looks at me . I don't think he's confused about how he feels, either he feels nothing or something . I want to get into his head and crack him . Why do guys act SO weird sometimes ? Help please ! I like this dude a lot otherwise I wouldn't be going around looking for answers in sites like this ! =[
Should I not do anything, or should I take action (what kind) . ?
I did just that earlier today. And I had a lot of fun messing with him. But the things is. I'm still confused about his feelings for me. I want to be 100% sure he likes me, or not. I'm just really scared of risking things by telling him I like him a lot. Ok I don't know if I'm sugarcoating things or just seeing what I want to see but here goes. I caught him looking at me, then he looked away suddenly but he started flexing his muscles like he knew I was staring at him - 9 months ago
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I don't know if either of you could be more obvious - the only time a guy talks to a girl and only wants to be friends with her is if she is packing extra pounds - 9 months ago
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