Okay, so here's the deal. There is this guy and he says I'm his "best friend"? And I guess I am. But I don't know. I've known him since the 4th grade and we NEVER talked as much since this year when he added me on myspace. Now, I guess we talk a lot. But I find it very annoying because every time I'm logged on aim or myspace he's the FIRST one to message me! And every time I log off, he logs off. What the heck? I don't know if this is a coincidence but it's kinda freaky. It seems like he's stalking me. But anyways, ever since he added me on myspace he talks to MY friends now. Like he adds them. For example, he added my cousin. And he's always talking about how I'm so "maganda" which means "pretty" in tagalog. Hahaha! And there's this one time where he told my cousin that when he was in Lake Elizabeth, he saw my freaking FACE on the clouds! Hahahah! But here's the thing, we live VERY far away. So, that's good. Oh! And he's always giving me clues and stuff like "it's been 5 years,and she still doesn't know" or "don't tell me that I'm in LOVE". I mean, yeah that's cute, but I don't know. I don't feel the same way. So what do I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings I mean he calls me his "best friend" and that we've been through "thick and thin together" but I don't get it. We never use to talk. But I guess. I don't know. Do you think he's sprung off me?
Well. You could avoid him - pretend you have a new boyfriend when you talk to him - eventually leading this up to telling him your new boyfriend doesn't want you talking to your male friends
I suggest you say. Hey, I think your awesome, but I'm just not into you like that, please don't hate me, and don't let me stop you from asking other girls out.
I agree with Angel as well. We as guys want 2 things, we want you to be straight forward and we want you to be honest. Yes, we know sometimes it will hurt us, but at least we know what and why something is happening, and we can move on. But if we keep thinking there is a chance or that something is there, we will continue to get our heart broken over and over again. But if we know for a fact that there is no chance, it will hurt, but at least give us a chance to move on and have our heart heal.
I agree with Playful Angel, being honest and being nice are two different things. I'd rather have honest friends. Like If I wear something that looks bad, I'd rather hear "take that off" vs "it looks fine. "
I say tell him the truth. Tell him how you feel. You want to be good friends but nothing more. You will always be there for him no matter what. Be honest. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings but he needs to know where you guys stand.
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