I met this guy six weeks ago at a party and he got my number after we'd both had a few too many. He began text messaging me the very next day and has continued to do so every day since then. We have long, in-depth conversations! But he can't pick up the phone and call me! I get that he is very shy, but we have had four one-on-one hangouts since then and he has warmed up, but it drives me crazy that he is too nervous to call me. I feel like texting and calling are on two completely different levels! He's told me that he told his mom about me and on our dates he holds my hand, and when we go out with his and my friends he does the same, rubs my back, kisses my forehead, etc. PDA! But we haven't had the 'define-the-relationship' talk and haven't done Anything past kissing. And it has been over a six weeks! I obviously don't think he is going to bring it up any time soon, so would it be too pushy of me to bring it up? Or is he just not into me?! I don't get it at all!
You should bring it up. If he is shy that might be his perfect opportunity to talk about it because he's to shy to bring it up. Guys don't hate women who take the lead on things. Don't be too pushy and if he dodges it call him out on it once, but don't badger him about it. It sounds like you two are taking it slow which is ok. Text messages are safe because we can put exactly what we want and can't slip up and say something embarrassing. But at some point he is going to trust himself around you enough that that will wear off. I would say keep doing what your doing. Call him from time to time and bring up the 'define a relationship' conversation in person sometime
This is guy is a little too weird. You guys been going out one on one and isn't comfortable talking to you on the phone. You should ask him why? The question is ARE YOU INTO HIM? If you are take a risk with him. Bring up the subject and see how it will go!
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