I think shy guys are really cute when they put themselves out there and try to talk to you, make you laugh, or even just smile and wave (then blush). But there are girls out there who would ignore a shy guy just because he is shy.
A shy guy isn't going to get attention. Sorry, but let's face the facts. "Nice" and "Shy" are pleasant words people use to describe what is actually "fear". Women aren't attracted to fearful people, especially those afraid of them. What a "bad" boy probably has that attracts women that a "nice" or "shy" guy doesn't is that he isn't afraid of her. He will go right up to her, approach her with confidence and assertiveness, and define what he wants. He won't make himself look like a friend and then complain when she sees him as one. You define how you want yourself to be perceived. If all you get is the friendship card, than that's how you are trying to sell yourself and it isn't working. Be confident, be assertive, look her in the eye, maintain open body language, have mutual conversation, don't procrastinate in asking her out or defining your wants and the future of the situation, stand up for yourself, and stand up for the girl. THAT'S what nice guys or shy guys never do. They never make a move and then complain when the ship sails. What does anyone expect is going to happen when they hang around in the background?! If anything, shy guys can come across as really rude and uninterested since they can't keep eye contact or express how they feel.
most guys I like are shy guys because they're the sweet ones the way to get her attention is to just look at her or find some way to talk her and make your own inside jokes =D goodluck
Okay I love shy guys but there is one thing though he has to show me he likes me. It is cute and I love knowing a shy guy likes me but you ahve to show her that you like her. If you have the courage I woukd walk up to her and talk to her and eye contact is huge when trying ot make the right impression. Also a little bit of touching gets the point across even if its just the shoulder or the arm.
I love shy guys! But at one point you need to man up! There is nothing more attractive than confidence (remember not cocky). My advice would be to go and talk to her! Also EYE CONTACT, who knows she might talk to you if you meet her eye level!
There is noting I like more than a guy to be the first to make the move not to be shy and hold back just to let the girl know that he likes her. I love when a guy showes he isn't afraid to show a girl how he feels.. make it known that you like her!
Just give her a nice smile and she'll pick up on the hint. If she likes you then she will make the first move. Otherwise just be really nice and catch a few words with her where you can. If she's a friend then you're probably going to have to make the decision if you want to tell her your feelings or forever wonder what she'd think.
1.Firstly, to get a girl's attention you have to be yourself, you have to give her the best at your best capacity because a girl can tell if you're faking it. So you have to stand out from the crowd, don't lie just be truthful, and when you get her attention try and keep it. 2.Secondly, you should be confident, even if you don't know how to be confident get some tips from professionals on how to act confident and this will work for you. Don't come off as being needy, cause when you first meet a woman it is a big turn off if you appear needy. Even if a woman does not respond to you walk off, which shows you are confident and it will grab her attention 3.Thirdly, your looks and appearance are very important in grabbing a woman's attention; work a little on your outer appearances. Make some effort, work out to get that good physique, not only will you look good but you will also feel good about yourself and it will automatically boost your self esteem. You don't have to look as good as a model or have six pack abs but just maintain yourself. 4.Fourthly,you can be mysterious, every women loves some mystery in her man, because being mysterious and sexy sets you apart. She will not be able to read your mind and this will get her attention because she will want to get to know you better and unravel the mystery. 5.And lastly you should have the right attitude when you flirt with a woman and what you can do is simply go up and talk to her, get to know her better, don't just jump to flirting, figure out what she wants and approach accordingly.
I did some research for you,haha.I hope this helps though I don't really know your current situation with the girl.Anyway,good luck!
if you are shy and the girl you like knows you're shy, you have too come out of your comfort zone for her. that will definitely get her attention. how shy are you really though? if you don't talk much, make an effort to hold a conversation with her. if you are not very social, join a club she's in or something like that. many good things can come from it.
As a shy guy you already have that mysterious appeal, you just need to incorporate enough confidence to keep her attention and the rest will come naturally as the relationship progresses.
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