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How can I flirt?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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And I've heard he likes me too. We are pretty much best friends though. We flirt a lot and stuff but I seriously need some tips on it.
Like how to hardcore flirt :)
maybe we can like each other more?

Haha because like I just kinda friendly flirt.
i need help. Please?

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mercutio (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
The "friendly flirt" is a guy's worst enemy :). With women like you, it's impossible for guys to tell when you're just being yourself and when you're trying to send us signals. Believe me when I tell you: nearly all of the signals you send go right over guys' heads. We're not used to communicating so subtly, so we usually miss it when women try to tell us important things without ever opening their mouths. As you have experienced first hand, this causes a lot of problems. The fact is, he probably DOES like you, but you're flirting so indiscriminately that he doesn't think you feel the same way. If that's the case, I can promise that he will probably never make a move. Generally, I'd say just to talk to him about it. Use words, not body language or eye contact. Unfortunately, I know that most women don't like doing this, so I would agree with Jennzer: flirt firmly. If you flirt with all of your guy friends, make sure you do something different (and preferably more intense) with him. Do you hug all your guy friends when you see them? Hug him longer or closer. Do and say things with him that you're obviously not doing or saying to the rest of the group. Hopefully he'll get the message. Good luck, and let me know how it goes!
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trickstir85
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trickstir85 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Jennzer provide some great flirting suggestions. Here are some others:

-Touch him on his arm or shoulder
-If you are in a loud setting (i. E. Club, bar etc) then lightly grab his arm and whisper something in his ear (doesn't have to be seductive or anything. Just something like. Mmm do you want dance, what do you think of this place etc etc)
-Here is a cute and subtle one: pretend as though there is something on his sweater or t-shirt and try to pick it off (haha, gets you nice and close to him)
and if you really want to make it clear.
-Just put your hand on his leg when you are sitting down.
-Um pull him by his hand to the dance floor (another very obvious and effective one)

I am not exactly sure how extroverted/friendly you are. But, if you are risk taker then the above suggestions will definitely send some clear signs. Good luck.
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alivea (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Well when you seem him just smile then giggle. Oh yeah let him touch your hands guys die when a girl touches his hands.
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Jennzer
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Jennzer (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Like you, I'm the friendly flirt.

Here are some tips that I try to make sure that I do to get the message across firmly:
- Be with him at all times. If he's in the room, you're talking to him. Make him feel like he's the only one in the room.
- Be playful. For example if he's making fun of you give him a little shove on the arm. Playful, however not rough.
- Compliment him in a way normally close friends wouldn't. For example "Ou. I never knew how strong you were. Impressive. " I would never say that to any of my guy friends.

Just a few tips. Hope they help. O;
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