Is the stereotype of the long haired slightly intellectual shy guy being unattractive and a major turn off a stereotype crammed down our throats by more traditional girls and movies or would most girls date someone like that? I have blue eyes and brown hair that extends a tad past my ears but never to my shoulders then it's girly. I'm a liberal arts type guy, I enjoy talking about movies and music and do a lot of writing. I'm also very shy and usually don't approach girls I like, despite how I constantly dream of holding them... I use myself as an example but would you date any shy guy that came up to you and revealed he liked you?
Of course! You sound like a really great guy. A lot of girls like guys that are a little shy because then they don't think that they are so great and stuff. Also, shy guys are more scared of rejection so I would imagine that it would take a lot more courage for them to confess their feelings. So, have some more confidence in yourself! :)
I love guys like you so yeah I'm pretty sure other girls do too. Girls love 'sensitive' types. You can still be masculine, but some girls like someone who isn't overbearingly masculine and lets them take care of themselves a bit. Nothing worse than the overbearing and overly protective macho man who patronizes you as if you're helpless without him. I'd take a guy like you over a macho man any day. Maybe try working on your confidence around girls though and try approaching and meeting more girls, I'm sure they'll like you just fine xD
For sure. Heck half the time I have crushes on this stereotype and the problems come in with the fact I'm not all that out going in this department. So nothing ever comes of it *le sigh* but, yeah. this 'type' defiantly has way more appeal to me than the vast majority of the types deemed desirable by the mass media
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