Hey everyone. Met this cute girl Junior year of school, we weren't really friends more like friendly acquaintances. Senior came up and we talk everyday. She texts me all the time and all that. We finally decided to hang out with a few of her friends. After the whole chill spot, I learned from her friend that one of the people she introduced me to was her ex-boyfriend whom she dates on and off. Right now, they're off on bad terms. Her friend also took the time to explain they've broken up and got back together about 2 or 3 times in the past.
Now what I'm asking is, since they break up and get back together often should I even try? Clearly she has feelings for this guy if they can hangout while not in a relationship and keep giving the guy lots of chances.
Not until girl X breaks from this on-off boyfriend should you even consider making a move on her. She sounds like she walking between the railroad tracks. And she doesn't a train coming right at her. (i.e. you). Next time she is 'off again' with this guy, let her know that you are willing to be there for her (if she needs to talk, needs someone to lean on). If anything, this will show that you care for her and trust me, you will prove to be the better guy for her. During her 'off-again' period with this guy, listen to her carefully. What does she dislike about this guy? Is she being like crap by him? - Let her know she deserves better. You didn't explain why she broke-it-off so many times to begin with. That might help with whether you should even bother approaching her. Does she bring it on herself? Does she have the confidence and stability to be in a relationship with you? Are you willing to be mr. Second best to her ex? - Good questions to ask yourself.
Well I think you should at least ask the girl how she feels about you I mean if you don't tell her how you feel she can't choose between you and the other guy. I mean maybe she likes you too. That's what I would do.
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