I am have been friends with this guy for the last 2 years (we met at work). He texts me a lot (every morning), and he always talks to me on the phone (gives me his true opinions) -- I have always been there for him through ups and downs. We have a lot deep conversations.
I don't know. But, he always calls me to come out. And when I get there he pays a lot of attention to other girls. Even though he called me to come there and hang out. He gets a lot of attention from girls because he is really nice, outgoing, funny, and has a great heart. I don't understand why he keeps bringing up other girls, posting pics of himself with other girls. Does he think this is a good way to get my attention? Do guys try to make the girl they like jealous? I always act normal, and in fact are always friendly to the other girls who are around me. Generally, it's not my nature to feel 'up-staged' or threatened by other girls. I consider myself who gets along with various types of people. I have a lot of confidence in myself. But, even still, I don't why he does this. Flaunts girls in front of my face. And then tells me he can't live without me, and I have to come out and be where he is. What the hell is that about? SUGGESTIONS?
Are these girlfriends he's showing you pictures of? Or, as I suspect, friends who are girls? I have no idea why he'd pull that kind of shit, unless he's just straight up not interested in what you've got between your legs. I would say you should look for someone else who is.
Yeah, friends who are girls. I am totally confused...and then he is always texting me...calling me...I know he only texts me cause I saw his list in my phone. I am so jealous...but, I do not show it cause I think that is juvenile and silly. - 6 months ago
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The friends who are girls thing, it should be setting off all sorts of warning bells.
Straight men can have friends who are girls, but they do not outnumber our male friends; we don't have a ton of pictures of ourselves with these girl friends; and if we do, we certainly don't show them to women that we would want to hook up with.
I'd say, in my totally unprofessional opinion, that you've got yourself a gay best friend. Or maybe he's just clueless or some sort of sexless freak. I say move on. - 6 months ago
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Hahaha. Yeah, I even suggested that once to him. I am thinking of breaking all communication because his games are really annoying me now. I don't know. But at least then maybe he will come clean. He has totally many times that I am his best friend, he cannot live without me, and once mentioned that he would even considering dating me. It's so confusing. But, I definitely at some point thought he was gay too. HAHA - 6 months ago
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If, despite being your best friend, and not being able to live without you, he would only CONSIDER dating you, he's gay.
None of those qualities are requisite for me to date someone, and if I found someone with those qualities, I'd probably marry her. - 6 months ago
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What qualities are talking about? - I am not sure if I understood your response clearly. BTW he is leaving for London in a couple of months, and I am throwing him a little party. I don't think I want to do that anymore.... - 6 months ago
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The qualities of "being someone I'm unable to live without" and "being my best friend." - 6 months ago
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Thanks. Maybe he will come to his senses....UGH - 6 months ago
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