How can I talk to a girl easily?

Aw, that is so cute. I had to say that! Obviously the key is to get some communication between you two. Is it possible to exchange FACEBOOK usernames? Or uh those other ones like msn/myspace (I am sure they still exist). I find that people who are shy communicate better over technology (mostly because they can bring their guard down) and not worry about the reaction of that person (since they can't see them). If you have a class with her/sports team/club etc/mutual friends. Find an excuse to ask her for her info. Because she is a nice person, I am positive she won't mind giving her info. Trust is hard to build unless you start communicating. Because both of you are shy. You will problem understand each other better (and neither will overwhelm the other person). And seriously, their is nothing wrong with telling a girl that you are shy. Sometimes it is a relief when guys are a bit quiet, thoughtful, and sensible. It doesn't scare or overwhelm the girl as much. Especially a shy one. Try to see if you can start communicating through technology first. Update us!

I'm a 16 year old girl myself. The best thing you can do is be yourself. When your around her, don't make it obvious that your shy. Just make yourself look funny(personality wise), calm, and relaxed. And if you ever catch her overhearing something you said, just get the courage to start talking to her right there. At the right time, get her involved and THEN start hinting at her.

Okay dude. I'm 23 and quite experienced. I was like you. Start with the baby steps. But eventually you will need to know that women are highly attracted to men with self-confidence. It's almost as if they can smell it. Now the thing is that you are just now starting so. Baby steps. With this girl you do have the advantage because you appear to have the same short coming. You are both shy. Go up to her and ask "Don't you hate when you want to say something then you get ready and you get nervous? ' Now you are just asking a perfectly simple question so she is probably going to agree. Now think of a time you were really nervous and felt embarrassed and tell her the story. Try and make it funny. Then ask what she does to overcome that. Now she will have to give feedback. Girls like to give their opinion. ALL OF THEM DO. From there just keep going with the conversation. If it goes well ask her if you can call her some time. Now ask it that way and leave it to her to give you the number. Asking specifically for a number is aggressive. Asking if you can call some time has the understood fact that you will need her number which you don't have. Got it? Good. Now if it goes badly no sweat. Just more experience points for you. And if she's rude it would be a good thing to find out now and not waste you time.

Talk to her like she was your best friend forever. Bring up conversations that show your caring nature and topics that favor you so she can trust you. Don't be too forward with it, but start slow. If you don't try you won't build anything up. Its worth failing, if worst comes to worst, you know what not to do next time.

Hey,
The second you become friends with her you chances of getting into a relationship with her drops to around 4 percent my friend.
I can help you and tell you exactly what to do but you will need to go to my facebook group in order for this to happen. I cannot help you out on here unless I am able to communicate back and forth with you.

There is a book titled How to Start a Conversation and Make Friends. I thought it was good. I'm sure there are many like it, including some by Dale Carnegie. One thing is to find out what she likes and get the conversation going on that for starters, or some situation that you both share at school. Listen to her and hear what she's saying. The real key is to just be honest. Be open to new ideas, but don't pretend to like everything she likes. Who knows what you might learn? But when you're nervous, just keep in mind that because she is shy too, she knows how you feel. She's not likely going to ridicule, if you say something that doesn't sound smooth.

Welcome to the world of guys. Most guys will tell you that they are avoid or are not sure how to approach the opposite sex. I think the easiest way for you in this situation is to get each others email address or chat user name and talk to each other on the computer until you feel more comfortable talking with her in person. Good Luck, and if you figure out some other way that works better or you find a secret I am all ears.