Guys, who should girls go for?

Something I am willing to put money on is the fact that 'good' guys lurk in every social category created, in equal numbers.

Some shy guys are bad, some are good. Some outgoing guys are good, some are bad.

No matter how we break down the social traits, we will find equal numbers of good and bad guys in each one.

What I find to be true is that people should pursue who they feel a connection with. I don't mean the "Ohhh, that guy is so hot!" or "He is so witty." I mean the guy who they truly feel a connection with, that goes beyond lust, political ideology, religion, whatever.

And if a person is constantly going after a certain kind of guy, I say change it up and try someone out who is not what you would traditionally gravitate towards.

Dating should be about having new, different kinds of experiences, in the pursuit of making you more aware of what is out there, and more aware of yourself.

You learn far more about yourself by challenging your preconceptions, than to constantly try the same thing. Because if you do the same thing over and over again, you'll reach the same result.

Ok, Try this.

The next time you THINK you're going to go for a guy,

Stop yourself.

And proceed to go for the guy behind him sitting down playing his PSP.

Remember those guys in school who got bullied or teased? Those guys are your safest bet.

Avoid the following:

Guys who are gym rats
Guys who wear overly tight shirts with their collar popped.
Guys who wear Ambercrombie & douche, Gap, American douchebag outfitter, or any of the sort.
Guys who wear really big stupid sunglasses.
Guys with faux hawks, hair gel and really stupid hair cuts. (these idiots travel in packs and are easily spotted.)
Guys who wear hats cocked to the side of their head.
Guys that wear giant necklaces.
Guys who spend more time in a tanning booth than you.
Guys with stupid tattoo work on their body...i.e. ( Tribals, any kind of asian lettering, barb wire, American flags, or sports team logos)
Guys with really obnoxious ring tones.
Guys who can not change a tire.
Guys who have never fired a gun
Guys who dress like cowboys in 21st century.
Guys we are involved with Japanese animation in any form.
Guys who work for banks, law firms, mortgage companies, car salesman, or any sort of male who ever went to school to specialize in business, finance, management, accounting or any other sort of fiscal douchebaggery.
Guys who hit women
Guys who stare at your t*ts while talking to you.
Guys who use more street slang than their actual native language.
Guys who wear lots of cologne
Guys who are not avid readers
Guys who are not pro choice.
Guys that do not believe in Darwin's law of evolution
Guys who are racist.
Guys who slander homosexuals
Guys who worship money, power, fame
Guys that listen to really obnoxious music super loud in traffic.
Guys who drug addicts, or alcoholics
Guys who think they are the toughest man alive after they drink two budlights
Guys who street race beyond the age of 20.
Guys who are overly religious
Guys that talk really loud all the time.

The following are good qualities to look for:

honesty, integrity, humility, a good sense of humor, passionate, ambitious, caring, kind, compassionate, understanding, compromising, reasonable, logical, sensible, understanding, loving, helpful, hopeful, positive, outgoing, and a few other adjectives you can look up on your own that make you smile.


We are soft spoken, we keep to ourselves, we don't ask for much, we have given more than we have received. We are usually all around you but you never noticed us because we don't advertise.

Anything worth having can not be bought cheap, gained quickly, or made poorly.