How do I "flirt"?

Oh you're sooooo pretty huh, then why are you anonymous, where's your pic? Haha I'm just bustin your chops. Well you seem like the perfect girl I'd like to date, pretty and "save the world' attitude. Oh well that's beside the point. A lot about flirting isn't verbal, in fact, initial flirting is just body language. What do I mean? Eye contact. Give the look, that, "hmmm not bad" look. OK when you walk into a club look inviting, look happy just like your friends, don't look unapproachable. What's unapproachable? You're pretty but you look arrogant or into yourself, which I'm sure you're not but you might come off that way. Bust a guys balls, that's what flirting is. I have big feet (size 15) and my feet are kind flat so I had special orthopedic shoes made that kind of look like clown shoes. This girl made fun of my shoes all of the time, "I didn't know happy meals gave away shoes now, are those the Ronald McDonald edition? " I was like, "Wow you really like the fact that my feet are big huh, you fantasize even, you have a really sick mind you know that. " She just busted out laughing and then we went back and forth after that. That's the art of flirting, get it? :)

Flirting and falling in love totally 2 different things. I suggest that you don't want a guy whose willing to go home with you from a club. But innocent flirting includes flipping your hair, batting eyes, making cute jokes. But really just be yourself that's how you'll find love a guy who knows you flaws and perfections and willing to take you as is that is love and you'll never find it trying to be someone else

Sarcasm usually works best to break the ice and keep it going. being a girl, you have the advantage, so look for the type of guy you want, make sure he seems nice/funny, and just have fun with it.

A guy who really wants to get to know you, 'fall in love with you' will recognize all those wonderful things that you do (the humanitarian causes you describe). You sound like a hardworking and caring person. Believe me, someone worth their salt will realize what a good heart you have. I agree with huffmaster4000 - clubs are not the ideal place to pick-up a guy, unless of course you want just a one-night-stand sort of thing (sounds like you really don't). Then don't bother. You are looking for a quality guy. Are their any guys in these environmental/humanitarian groups your part of? - There you will meet someone like minded such as yourself. Just based on key similarities you will attract someone within those groups. As for flirting, really, when the right guy comes along, one you feel attraction towards (even subconsciously) you flirting side will come out - you'll talk more, laugh more, your eyes will show more interest. It's subtle, but I do believe everyone has a flirty side that emerges with the RIGHT person. Don't accept anything less than your standards!

The key is finding the guy worth flirting with. Someone that you feel an attraction to and really connect with. You'll find yourself flirting effortlessly by just being yourself and you won't even realize it at first. You don't want to be too big of a flirt because that will make you come off as easy. It's not that you don't know how to flirt, maybe you're just choosy with whom you flirt with. You're looking for love, not just any Tom, Dick, or Harry, and because of that it's good to be choosy and have standards. When you meet someone that you want to flirt with though, just flash him a big smile and flip your hair back so it exposes your neck(guys love that for some reason) If you're sitting, cross your legs towards him. These are all little ways of letting him know that you're interested in him. Hope this is helpful