Any help?

ok so I'm in high school and I lernt that if you just go and ask them out then even if they say no they will be your friend and be flattered. just remember rejection is not so bad. just breath and then ask =]

Used to have the same prob in high school, but once you're out in the real world - or just college it's easier to say "hey, I strike out or make a fool of myself it's no big since I'll never see them again.". Good luck.

I struggle with this, too. I think everyone does at some point, no matter how confident they seem to be. The only way you really can get over your fear is by facing it. It seems like the scariest thing ever, but once you get used to something, it gets easier over time. Try and think of it this way -- being rejected by someone you like sucks royally, but the chance of getting them is worth taking that risk, right? The only way to 'grow some balls' is to just put yourself out there and ask someone out. There's really no other way around it, unfortunately.

Well ima put it plain and simple you got two choices 1. wait for a second puberty which probably won't happen or 2. Man up and just go for it... you have to realize that millions of people get shot down everyday it won't just be you all you can do is move on to the next person you may like, eventually you will get a yes and you never know you may fall in love

This sounds pretty stupid, but maybe it will work (it worked for me). When I'm walking in the streets(or anywhere public), I would simply just say "what time is it?" or just "hi" and keep walking, to EVERYBODY (maybe every 5 minutes). I did this everyday, until I felt the fear of rejection gone.

JUST DO IT! If you ask out a girl and you get rejected then you can't go out with that girl, but if you don't ask her out, then you still don't get to go out with that girl. When you ask her out then at least you have the possibility of going out with her.