I was wandering why I always attract younger thin/twiggy shorter guys I'm not that skinny I 130 pounds (mostly muscles)and 5'4" and all the guys that like me are like 110-125 and don't have a lot of muscle and are shorter by like 3-6 inches shorter and I like the guys who have some meat on there bones and weigh not much but more than me and who are taller
So why do I attract short skinny/twiggy guys rather than taller normally/musclely guys
In a way it kind of reminds me of Eric and Donna from That Seventies Show. She'd kick his ass, lol. Maybe these thin/short guys feel more secure around a strong woman, I'm not sure there (I'm pretty tall, lol) so that's just a guess.
And do you smile and make eye contact with the taller guys, or do you get nervous around them and get kind of shy?
I feel like these shorter guys may be easier for you to talk to naturally as they are not what you describe as catching the attractive qualities you like. They make good friends in your eyes, maybe, but they find you attractive. Then, they guys you like, it's a little harder to make eye contact with and smile at, and because of that there's less of a feeling for the guy to feel like he is welcome to come talk to you. Can you relate? Or does this not help any?
Well you got a good point but I'm not sure see I always make eye contact no matter what and I'm always friendly and I think just in general I smile to much and I kinda act like a guy friend to all types of guys like I won't get grossed out when they burp or that stuff I laugh at immature jokes of the taller/older guys just as much as the shorter/younger guys and I just pal around maybe that's it. i like to comparison of donna and eric it makes sense - 9 months ago
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Okay, like if a girl acts friendly around me and not like flirty friendly, then I'm going to think she just wants to be friends. But if she smiles/ keep eye contact a little longer, and does something like bat her eye lashes or gives me a smile, then turns away gracefully and turns around to smile again, touches my arm or hand (you know what I mean-classic types of flirting), then I'm going to get a different impression. Do you flirt a lot, or just act friendly? - 9 months ago
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Around guys that I like I'll act flirty friendly but if its just guys I hang out with then just friendly - 9 months ago
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One thing you can do: is to make more friends with the taller guys and just see what kinds of girls interest them, on like a friendly, inquisitive level. Also do you use any physical contact when you flirt with the guys you like? Like if you touched their hand, sooner of later they should respond, like tap you in the shoulder, then you hip-check him or something as you walk towards a doorway, and he leads you through it with his arm on your back. Do you find yourself in these situations? - 9 months ago
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