Does this girl like me? I told her I liked her a four months ago. She told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and felt like she'd only end up hurting the guy. I told her that was fine, and we're still good friends now. I also recently discovered that she's never had a boyfriend...
But recently (in the past month or so), I've tried different ways of acting around her, and I'm wondering if you guys think she likes me...
PROS: - I've recently tried touching her, not sexually of course... like when we go out as a group I flirt with her, grab hold of her hands (not holding her hands, but grab them for a few seconds), give her long hugs, stand and sit really close to her, and she doesn't pull back or move away, or avoid me or anything like that. - I've sent her texts/emails calling her beautiful, sweet, and even have a nickname for her, and still she acts totally comfortably around me, like nothing is bothering her. And, when she went away for a week for example, she sent me an email thanking me for the sweet message...
CONS: - she probably only replies to about half my texts and emails, and the half she does reply to, she takes ages (sometimes days) to do so. I would've thought if she liked me she'd reply fast... - she rarely initiates texts/emails too... which if she liked me I thought she'd do...
The mixed signals have just left me very confused. If I hadn't told her I liked her 4 months ago, sure, there would be a lot more explanations for these actions, she might just think I'm joking around... but surely the fact I told her I liked her four months ago has crossed her mind? Surely she knows that I still like her? So any ideas why she's continuing to act like this? And any advice?
Bro what's up. Its great that you met a lady you like... Your doing well, maybe you should try easily off a bit... The mistake most guys make with woman is they admit there feelings to early. If you like a woman, flirt with her but never admit to her that you like her. Let her control the speed of the relationship. Don't talk to her for to long either, talk to her for maybe a minute to 5 minutes..Let her know your busy and you have stuff going on... Let her miss you some, be mysterious... She wonder want your doing and she'll call you.. Trust me. I know you like her but continue to have your own life.. Woman don't like to be smothered...
1) Create a challenge. (ENGAGE a woman's mind and emotions)
2) Give her a little, then lean back. (When you give a woman a little bit, then lean back, you set up a "Hey, I want more of that" situation.
3) Give her the gift of missing you. (you realize that for women, thinking about, missing, and anticipating the next time you meet is often even more powerful than the actual EXPERIENCE of "the next time". - A month ago
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4) Be unpredictable. When you're UNPREDICTABLE, you do something that is almost MAGIC... when a man understands how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, then he doesn't do things that are PREDICTABLE, women will tend to think about him ALL THE TIME.
P.s Things that are predictable become uninteresting and boring... and keep giving her compliments like your doing, not the same ones either. put some spice in them. and really listen to her when she talks.... Good Luck Little Bro.
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