If a nice and pretty girl that you're kind of attracted to told you that you're really cute or attractive, would it give you the confidence to ask her out?
I like this guy and want to get to know him better (we're sorta acquaintances not quite friends yet)...I need a definite indication that he likes me before I ask him if he wants to have coffee with me or something...or if I could give him the confidence to ask me out that would be even better. Sometimes I just look at him and smile and he goes 'what?' while grinning at me..next time that happens I might just go 'nothing, you're just really cute (attractive?)', and maybe that will give him the confidence to ask me out or at least say something back that will let me know he feels the same?
I agree with jtj25m. I've had a few women tell me that they thought I was handsome, but it didn't suddenly make me want to ask them out, I just assumed they were being nice.
The majority of guys might see this as an invitation and so may he. But it's worth remembering that not every man is like this. Some of us are clueless and won't see your comment for what it really is.
My issue here is that if he is the kind of man that gets along well with females, and has many female friends, then such displays might go right over his head. I myself have more female friends than male. And it is nothing for either of us to smile at each other for no reason or to give nice little compliments here and there for no other reason than we want to make the other person happy. I know, 'the guy is supposed to do the work' but if it is something you want, then you may very well have to take the responsibility of taking the initiative. If you're good friends, nothing horrible or irreversible will happen, and that I know from experience.
Oops...you aren't friends...Guess I need to wake up a bit before I start answering questions. Either way if he's that type of male, there won't be dire consequences, even if you aren't good friends. - A month ago
Yes, compliments from a pretty girl always gives a guy confidence unless, of course, he has a limp wrists. The 'really cute' comment would be just like saying "Yes, I like you." and is a good idea. If he's not stupid or a fool than he should ask you out. Try to notice he he lights up around you. If he does he's interested in you.
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