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I need help talking to a shy guy.

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Ruby94 (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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I have trouble talking with this shy guy that I really like and I want to have a nice conversation with him, he is really shy and I think he is afraid to talk to me how should I start a conversation with him? And also id like to flirt with him more how should I do this?


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Menomacal
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Menomacal      When: 12 days ago
Hmmm tlaking about trivial stuff can help. Eg: If you were stuck on an island what 5 films would you have? Do you watch The Wire or Curb your Enthusiasm? What was the last film you saw in the cinema? What did you think of it? How was it like that? etc etc etc
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Ollie
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Ollie      When: 23 days ago
Lol I'm shy like that and what a girl did was just come onto me with brute force lol...
It was hell at times but it worked.
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Tyrden
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Tyrden      When: 28 days ago
Shy guys are like scared cats hiding in the closet. They need to be coaxed out slowly. If you talk to him regularly he'll expect it and probably come out of his shell more. I wouldn't flirt with him until he's comfrotable having a full on conversation with you. But if you're the kind of person that just jumps up and talks a mile a minute you'll probably freak him out. Plus shy guys dig nice girls. do something that's like "wow, that was really kind out of no where" like pick up litter or something and throw it away.
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Question Asker Thank you sooooooooooooooo much!!!!!!! - 24 days ago

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cyanosis      When: A month ago
what kinda guy is he? there's guys that hate talking and rather not hear nothing like me and there's guys who are scared of girls and turn red and start shaking around a girls cause there d***s can't handle it . and there's the shy people who feel uncomfortable around people and rather sit and hide from everyone (THATS ALL I can think of

but if your sure he likes you back than just talk to him and know him more before you start getting all touchy and flirty. try this so just force conversations to him so you can get him to open up about his life and what he likes but as a guy my self I hate it when girls ask me stuff like this
:why don't you talk much: or : your really quite : just questions like that kind put us down or make us have no response too cause if your shy person or hate talking its not cause your lonely or desperate it only means we havn't practice socializing with people so we kinda keep things to our selfs so if I were you I would start him off slow by getting to know one thing about him every day and try to get him to talk but don't say stuff that will make him uncomfortable
plus get his number so you can text him that should help a little and call him when you want to hang out . just do little stuff and improve your steps so as you go you can reach your goals.
plus if you a girl who like to party 24/7 and likes to go hang out everywhere than that's probably not the right guy for you unless you can control him on a leash cause I broke up with a girl just cause I didn't want to go over to her little friends partys and she wanted me to spend time with her friends boyfriends and I told her no to each one and she got pist said somthing that pist me off and I left her so that's why I said you shouldnt date him if your a party girl
but I hope the best for you and yes there's couples out in the world you have nothing in common and it works out for them so good luck (:
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