I really want to know, because all guys talk dirty to me. they even told me that they just want "that thing", but they wouldn't want to go out with me. why? I'm really fun, outgoing and friendly. I'm tired of guys flirting around, I want someone real. but what are guys looking for in a girl to be his girlfriend? please tell meeeeeee=]
Hunny, if they're talking dirty to you like that, that doesn't mean they are looking to date, it means they're looking for sex. The problem isn't you, the problem is the guys you're hanging out with. There are many guys who are looking to be serious and have a girlfriend and not looking for sex. But these guys don't care about that, or else they'd treat you with some respect.
That's really different for every guy. Me personally, I don't know if a girl is girlfriend material or not until I hang out with them or just get to know them more. But of course learning about each other is also part of dating. It's just up to the type of person the guy is and I guess what type of guys you might attract. Seems as if all the guys are just horny or still somewhat young and dumb imo ahaha, I'm not going ot deny guys or myself wanting to have sex but that shouldn't be how to think/treat a girl off the bat, well maybe you're hot then :].