I am in love with this special guy. And I feel that he's also interested in me. Now, in a week he'll be leaving and I know that I will never talked to him anymore. My dilemma is should I let him know about how I feel? Or I'll just let it pass and be left in a cold? I am ready to be pushed away and be neglected anyways so.. please tell me what should I do.
Well I think you should tell him. You have nothing to lose, after all, if he leaves and he rejects you (lets hope he wont), you'll probably never hear from him again, but if you tell him, you guys could keep in contact. MSN, e-mail, Facebook, phone calls (use a calling card), texting, etc. The wonders of technology these days!
If you feel he's interested then, just make the first move! What if he's 'the one'? Don't miss out on a chance like this, even if its a small one, take it. Don't sound so negative, I'm a negative person, it's just who I am, which means my confidence is very low, but that doesn't mean yours has to be. Go ahead and tell him. Guys like girls with confidence, :) Don't worry about the outcome, because what ever happens happens, it was meant to be.
How long have you been dating him? Is he leaving for work or some other reason? Where's he going? I ask these questions because if you've only been dating for a short time and he's leaving because he just got a dream job then I think you should just let him go. It sounds like you care about him and I'm sure you don't want to be the one that maybe held him back. As the saying goes, "if you love something let it go." Trying to hold onto something too hard is usually a mistake and will cause problems down the road. If he's not going too far away you can always go visit. But remember, there are millions of other men out there. You're worth the time it takes to shop around and see if there's something better. If you can change your point of view to realize that there are many quality men out there then you will be more relaxed and happy. This new confidence will shine through and show on the outside and you will have plenty of quality men to choose from at that point. BTW - this guy will also see your confidence shine through if you stay in touch with him and I wouldn't be surprised if he ended up back in you life down the road because of it. Good luck!
Thanks for the reply.. so do you really think I should tell him or ill just keep it to myself? - A month ago
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It really depends on the answers to my questions above, but if I had to guess I would say don't tell him. I say this because that is the way you can "let him go". Then work on yourself and he may came back. But if he doesn't then you will have many other options anyway. - A month ago
Tell him how you feel you might regret it later. What if he feels the same way? And with your attitude towards the whole situation what have you got to loose?
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