I would say at least keep the ones that aren't useless to you.
If you're looking for one thing from a girl and she's not offering, you don't have to waste your time or hers.
But try to ponder what the benefits of having her around would be. If you honestly see none and she seems non-instrumental to you, then by all means, delete.
Just try to look at them as if they were male friends. If you have to stop and think "why the hell would I want to keep this person around? They're totally useless!", then you needn't bother.
If that's what you want to do then it's fine. It's not really super harsh since you're not obligated to be friends with someone that you like but doesn't feel the same way about you. Maybe it's too painful to be friends with someone that you have feelings for?
Some of the best relationships begin as friendships. Don't you think it's worth hanging on to those phone numbers for girls that would make good friends? I hear guys say sometimes that they enjoy having female friends for a female perspective on things. In addition, how do you know that eventually the friendship won't progress into one of the best relationships you've ever had?
Great answer - this is pretty much what I was planning to write to him...
I'd just add that in this day and age with technology keeping people from interacting face to face can you really afford to not have more people you know that you can chat with? And why does it have to be a win-win or a black and white issue. Accept that at this point in time when a women asks for your friendship - you shouldn't be insulted. It's not always about you...could be she's working on being a better person. - A month ago
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Thank you. The piece you added is also very enlightening and something I didn't think of. Very sage. - A month ago
you're acting like a child. if a girl isn't interested in you in that way, you don't see any value in just being friends? that's like a little kid who knocks over the entire display of Tonka trucks because his mom won't buy him one. besides, girls can change their minds about people and if you just burn your bridges, like you're doing, then you're really putting yourself at a disadvantage.
Not true when girls put you in the friend zone you stay in the friend zone - A month ago
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Not true at all. some of my boyfriends in the past have been guys that I initially put in the friend zone. - A month ago
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Also, by staying friends with her, you're building a network. she'll introduce you to her friends and who knows, maybe you'll hit it off with one of them! - A month ago
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