Why won't guys answer their phone?

Personally, I hate the phone. You can call it prideful all you want, but I hate showing much emotion at all to people. (with the exception of course to the one that I care most about. Even then though, I don't like to show my emotions to this girl in front of other people. When I'm alone with her, I'm not afraid to tell her all the things on my mind. Ex. What I think about her, our relationship, and the parts where I tend to show my sweet side. ) The only time I like talking to someone on the phone is if it's purely an informational call. . . Or if I'm alone in a room by myself unable to be disturbed.

I wouldn't judge this guy JUST on his attitude with his phone. Meet up with him, and see what he's like in person before you make rash decisions. He might just be a shy phone talker.

He sounds like he is stringing you along for his own ego.

maybe I sound a little harsh, but I would pursue other guys and not waste anymore time with this one. the ball is in his court and he is being flaky and not making a move.

Well about telling you on IM to call him then he don't pick up or call back its just he shy and maybe he thinks your gonna think his voice is ugly. About making plans and him not picking up when you guys going to meet up might be that he's shy and is afraid that he might not be what you expected. Trust me I been throw that before. But have you asked him why he does that?

I have gone through the samething at some point. Its almost like this guy gets off knowing that he's peaked your interest. I'm not going to say that he's not into but there is no clear reason to believe that he is. He makes plans to meet up but is a flake, and when you call he never answers. Don't play his game just keep it moving. If he wants you let him find you