I'll keep this as short as possible. I have a boyfriend. This guy has a girlfriend. We're both serious about our SOs, but we talk a lot to each other. And sometimes there's a bit of flirting involved. We respect that invisible line, but we get awfully close to it. I'm not the type of person to cheat, but I am naturally flirtatious. And he's quite charming himself to say the least. Our personalities end up bouncing off each other. We both get along and we're kind of like each other's support. When I have problems with my boyfriend I talk to him about it, and vice versa. I don't know if I'm getting myself into something potentially damaging or if I should put a firm stop on our flirtatious manners. Nothing terribly explicit is said and we don't act on anything. Is that too much flirting?
Since you both have someone just keep that in mind and never let things go to far you just have yo use your own judgment on what is going to far. If you think that you two are crossing the line think about your boyfriend and how he would feel if he saw you two
Yes, of course. I think about my boyfriend constantly and I know he wouldn't be happy if he knew what we talked about. He keeps saying he doesn't care if we talk, but then he keeps saying it. - 9 months ago
I was in your situation a few weeks ago (except he was single), and now my boyfriend and I are broken up, and I'm with the new guy. I'm not saying this will happen to you, but don't expect yourself to make good spur-of-the-moment decisions when you're so emotionally involved. Here's what I recommend: decide what you really want. Do you want to stay with your boyfriend? Does all the flirting make you miss being single? Do you want to be with this new guy? Make a decision, and then do only things that will enforce that decision. If you stick with the boyfriend, find a way to get yourself over this guy. I made the mistake of thinking that I could have a little of both, and it doesn't work. This is a tough situation, but I think that if you are determined to stay stronger than I did, you'll be just fine. I don't mean to bring you down; just a friendly warning. :] Good luck!
Thanks for the advice. I actually don't want a little of both. I do want my bf, but we're going through a rough time. I'm not sure if he wants me. I didn't pursue this guy, he kinda came on strong to me. I resisted for a long while, but with recent events I find myself giving in bit by bit (but never too much). And I respect the fact he does have a girlfriend. I would hate for that be done to me, so I don't want to do it to her. It's tough. - 9 months ago
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