So this guy is confusing. We've hooked up a couple times. But I don't understand him. He ignores me whenever were around other people. But we'll be texting?. And he acts childish when a guy flirts me. But then again he never told me he wanted me as a girlfriend or anything serious. I got no clue what he wants.
Okay you made out with him and you told him your interested? That's a double whammy. If you really like a guy you hold out until his intentions are clear. If I haven't established my intentions with a girl (like take her out on a date or anything) then I'm just hooking up just to get with her. You make out after you've been out with the guy otherwise that's all it is, just a hook up. He came and got what he wanted from you, now you tell him you're interested. No wonder he ignores you around other people, because he's got you wrapped around his finger, now, in public, he wants to see who else he can add to his collection. What to do? Next time he texts you, don't answer, make him chase after you, and flirt with guys who flirt with you first (you don't want to lead on random guys that's mean), when he talks to you give quick answers and say you have to go. Give him mixed signals and he'll think, "Oh shit, I'm losin my grip, what's up. " Then he'll focus all his attention on getting you back and you decide whether or not he's worth keeping. You'll have. All the power at your fingertips. This information is lethal. Devastating even. But hey you're cool and you're not using it against me. So I don't give a damn :)
Lol. Hahaha. Dang that's soo true. One time I was like w. E to him and he called me up that same night askin what was up with the attitude I had given him. I guess I should start doin that again. Your really smart btw =] - 9 months ago
He doesn't want you to know that he likes you a lot. See I do the same thing, except if I get jealous I just want show it, and I'll work harder to keep her attention. No guy wants to display just how much he likes a girl. Why? Okay anonymous girl (idk why you have to be anonymous) but lets just say you know that I like you a lot. Now you have all of the power, you get to decide, do I want to go out with Suave Man or do I not? There's no chase, there's no mystery, you don't have to second guess my intentions. You can make me or break me at the moment of your choice. See, there's no way I would give you all that power, so I give you attention sometimes, and other times I ignore you completely. So now I have the power, and you can't guess what I want.
Ever heard the saying different strokes for different folks? This guy could be doing one of two things playing with your head. Or just simply PLAYING. You say you 2 have ''hooked up ( whatever that means to you) a couple of times but whenever you guys are around other people he ignores you. Is it possible that he rather you not be seen or heard? That's cute he acts childish when a guy flirts with you , but things would be so much easier if he just let you know where you stand instead of having you play the field. On the other hand he may just like you but , is unable 2 express those things 2 you in front of other's , he's a guy most of the time they don't like being put in compromising situations. Ur best bet would be 2 just ask him if you don't know whats on his mind we probably don't either. Good luck
He might be embarrassed of liking you (not that you did something wrong) around his friends. Maybe you aren't the "hottest" thing in school and he doesn't want to be embarrassed about you in front of his friends. I am sure you a pretty but if he is a jerk he won't talk to you in front of his friends if you are not Jessica alba hot. And he is probably jealous if a guy flirts with you but doesn't want to do anything about it because of what I mentioned before. Hope thsi helpes!
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