Getting the she guy to notice you?

First off, don't flirt, shy guys are not hard wired to understand the game, be honest about what you want, make the first move, once he knows your interest is genuine, he will step up, the reason guys are shy is because the don't want to be rejected, they need positive reinforcement. "before you can believe in yourself, it help to know someone believes in you"
you only need to take charge the first round or 2, trust me will make up for it once he feels sure of himself.

I think if you just be yourself then that "guy" will notice you anyways. You see us guys really are not that complicated and I am sure there are a million things that you do that he likes to begin with. Be creative. Just like girls, we don't like the same games and tricks.

There are lots of ways to get him to notice you. Really depends on your relationship with him. Friends? Co-workers? Strangers? Classmates? Your intimacy level determines how forward you can be without it being odd. Like you're messing with him.

If you're socially awkward like most shy folks... Start off with a wave of the hand. That usually works. Or "want to be friends?" "My name is , what's yours?"

Unfortunately for shy guys most don't go wild. Wild is BLUSHING, FLUTTERING OF THE "HEART" etc. Smile sincerely. Just try to make him comfortable enough to flirt back. Make him laugh. Make him smile. Touch his hands.

Sometimes he may show disinterest become he doesn't like to display emotions. Don't let that dissuade you.

She guy?

Does he squirt shemen when he cums?

Start out being friendly and tease around with him because him being a shy person he probly doesn't get to tease around with a girl and I think that would do it.

Being shy myself, id prefer if the girl started with little things at first, like smiling...Just so I know she likes me...Then start talking to break me out of my shell. =3

That would do it for me^^

Also, flashing him never hurts =P

Take off your top. Problem solved.

Eye contact, smile.

Getting the she guy to notice you?

Flash him. :\

I thought you wanted to know how to get a transvestites attention... I would just be like, what's your a/s/l ..if that is what you are looking for, go for it. . . .

okay, but for real...typically, if it is a shy guy.. (depending on how shy)... being over flirtatious would probably send him into a shocked state. . . . I would start slow and build your way up to flirting that "makes him go wild". . .Get comfortable with the guy first. Just ask if he want to hang out; then invite to a movie? You're 30-35 years old, you should have some perspective on this already. . . This isn't highschool; There isn't bj's in the parking lot, except on special occasions.
Just push past your shyness and open up conversation; if the conversation is dead then just invite him to do something in public or something...maybe that would decrease awkwardness...

Perfect time to have a group outing. have 6 or 7 friends including you two and hang out and try to sit next to him, and eat with him so he knows what you like, and how you act aswell you can see what he likes and wants. Then don't do passing notes in school because that's defeating the purpose and anyone can read those. Better to talk it out after hanging out a few times and talking about things you learned on the outings that you two have incommom. Example, if he likes sports, aswell so do you, talk about your experiences.

Just talk to him...

{walk up to you.}{smiles.}
HEY! IM (your name). WHATS YOUR NAME?

YOU LIKE MUSIC?
WHATS YOUR FAVORITE BOOK?
FAVORITE MOVIE?
FAVORITE SHOW?
FAVORITE SUBJECT?
GOTTA GIRLFRIEND?

basically what I'm saying is that if you want some thing then step up and get it.
HA! two shy people liking each other. unless one of you steps up then you two
wont ever work out as a couple.

If the shy guy were going to go wild, he probably wouldn't be a shy guy, so you might want to shelve that idea for the time being.

In the meanwhile, try talking to him, opening up a few lines of communication. He likely has trouble talking to girls, so he'll appreciate your taking some of the trouble off his hands.

im a shy guy and the way my shy girlfriend got my attention was to ask one of my friends if I liked her.. it may sound childish to have a friend confront him but look at me now. at least I finally knew.

Look at him a lot, smile at him.

Be as not threatening as possible; don't want to scare him away

(Getting the she guy to notice you?)
Just saying, but I thought you were talking about a transvestite.

Well, it helps if you make him feel at ease. Honestly, I see nothing wrong with the girl reaching out...just don't over do it. If he doesn't bite the bait, chances are:

1) he's dumb

2) he's not interested

If you already exchanged numbers, that should make things easy. Start out with a random text (you can call if you're comfy enough with him ;)...) asking him how his day was.

If you guys are complete strangers, here's what I do that helps (yes, I'm a guy but I figured that this would also help for the ladies); it's not the "lines" that count, establish eye contact first (but don't stare as if you're going to eat him!).

If you guys managed to "catch each other looking", smile. Chances are, the other person's going to smile back.

If you guys are in a bar/social function, "toast" and consume your drink (responsibly, okay? ^_^). If he responds, you can either wait for him to approach you OR you can approach him yourself ;)

As for the flirting part...well...i recall this time when a stranger (a girl of course...hahaha) just winked at me and touched my cheek. And all I ever did was just smile and hold the door open for her at the club ;)

Haha I love your she guy thing! It's catchy. But in all seriousness suggest something casual like "I'm thirsty, wanna join me for a milkshake?' There are 2 answers to this 1. He may say sure! And that's sweet or 2. He'll say no, initially, but then throw in "My shout, tight ass." Then boom you're in!

I suspect you're not unable to talk, you're just a bit nervous. Try approaching him very casually. My fiance and I are both a bit shy, but are good conversationalists; she asked me to take her picture when we first met. Seeing that she asked 20 other people that day to do the same, it was pretty innocent. Just take it from there and obviously you'll determine by how easily the conversation flows if you should take it further. No guy is going to be upset that you approached him with an interest.

Dealing with a shy guy can be tough. Expecially when your shy yourself. One of the two will have to break out of thier comfort zone and ask the other one out. I would have to say you might just have to tell him. Then ask him if he is interested in you. Straight to the point. No time wasted. I know its not a slick way to do it. But shyness is hard to get around expecially at a young age.

start by sending a few texts and then a phone call. eventually that leads to hanging out and more? :D

Engage him, get him to talk about something he's really passionate about (to make a mental association with you from intense chat) and then do the flirting afterward.

If you haven't had the 1st contact, try "accidentally" brushing your hand against his, laugh to your friends joke and then look at him, or pretend you really annoyed about something rant at him and then say thanks for listening even though your a stranger and your such a great guy. But do these if your comfortable with it as it about how you sell it.

wild? haha I haven't the slightest clue, bue shy guys uusally supress there emotions, so even if he was going crazy in his head he wouldn't show it. the only way is to talk to him,ans tart friendly battter. (but sinceur shy theat doesn't help much) So you only other alternative, is to just look at him and smile every so ofen don't do it a lot but enough to where he takes notice, if you look enough to make him think that your interested, then he might get enough confidence to talk to you. or loosen up enough to be comfotable to talk to youj. :) hope that hleps it's not a 100 percent guarantee, but I hope it works. m

Well I would say first thing is first.. give a little smile. next try to approach him. not to desperatly. Try some little talk. flirt with him in a friendly way. If you see he reacts in a positive way. compliment him like in his clothes his smile etc..and take it from there. After that everything else goes much smoother..


Hope it helpz..


xoxo

Eye contact does wonders. Let him catch you looking a few times (not creepy like tho ha) and the hint should smack him in the face. Getting caught looking at a guy is a classic signal that you're interested. Guys you take note on this as well. If you catch a girl looking at you (usually twice) she's most likely interested. (check to see if your fly is unzipped or you have food on your face, if not, then she's looking bcuz she's interested). However, if that doesn't work, you take his attention then. When you look good, you feel good. When you feel good, you're confident. Get all cute and sexy and talk to the guy. Start small like "(smile) hey." or start a little bit bigger with "hey I like your shirt." or "hey did you catch that game last night?" Whatever gets you two interacting... just do it.

talk smile and flirt a little bit

look at him , smile at him, talk and flirt with him, wiggle your ass a bit.. it`s not that hard, really.