We first met at gym 2 months ago. She was THEN VERY PERSISTENT about us hangin out (continuous IMs, facebook comments, gives me her number without me askin for it. ) so we hung out. I tried to make a move on her and she just turned her head, I apologized and she said its fine and ever since, I don't like her as anything more than a friend then for about a month we didn't talk at all, but we started again about 3 weeks ago.
I see her at the gym 3 weeks after we hang out, and she immediately wants me to be by her, 2 weeks later I see her again at the gym, same thing, she wants me to be by her and asks me to go get coffee with her, so we go and it goes good, but I don't try any moves. Just this past sunday she texts me asking what I did the night before, so we text each other for a while, then I stopped texting back, and she said to me "im going to the gym tomorrow morning, you should come so we could go on treadmill together"
And also just today we were texting each other and she said she was eating chili and I said I never had it so she's like COME OVER AND EAT IT! So I'm like NAH I CANT IM IN SCHOOL. Sooo then like hour later she texts me saying DO You WANNA TAKE A WALK AROUND THE LAKE TODAY? So we went (and she gave me a bowl of her chili when I went to pick her up), but I still didn't make a move? I just like her as a friend, but I think she wants more?
Well she needs to make up her mind! It seems like she is unsure about whether or not she wants to be with you, just talk to her about it. Your right for waiting it out but this can't go on forever know what I'm saying? You're either gonna find another girl or she'll end up losing interest, so act quick! P. S What's the worst that could happen anyway, you guys won't see each other at the gym, lol. =D Hope this helped. HTH rarcak
I'm agreeing with rarcak on this one too. This girl is totally flopping back and forth changing her mind about you. This could be an early sign/red flag of commitment issues also here where she is afraid to get into a relationship. The good news is yes when a girl is wanting to spend more and more time with you that means she likes you to a certain extent. You can stay friends if that's what you would like; however, you already made an initial move and you have already shown how you feel about her by doing so. It's her turn to finally make a decision on what she wants, so you just keep being her friend and see what happens really. But yeah no need to make another since you already did. It's her turn to put herself out there now.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Would start off grabbing Ice cream somewhere, then hitting up the art museum, afterwards grab a bite to eat somewhere not fancy but fun. then if its not to far walk her home and go with the flow not forcing any thing in any direction but not straying away from any thing ether.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Afterward I would hope she would think I am fun a little educated, and just out right hilarious.
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