was flirting with you at a party and had just broken up with his girlfriend of 2 years.. would you continue to flirt with him after you'd found out that he and his girlfriend had gotten back together?
Hypothetically speaking...so even if he wasn't flirting with you, however the fact still stands that you two had flirted at a party, you wouldn't continue to pursue him? - 25 days ago
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No. He is off limits now. The reason I say don't pursue it is not just to be nice to the girlfriend. It is because if you do pursue it and he responds, then that would make him a cheater. Cheaters keep cheating! Also, even if he did respond, he would probably have less respect for you for hitting on him when he was already taken. Don't waste your time with people who are not available. It just leads to problems and heartache. - 25 days ago
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I'm the girlfriend, I'm not worried about my boyfriend, he'd never hurt me in that way.. but this girl continues to text him "i wanna see my bestie!" and all this crap, asking if he's going to certain parties so she can see him. he never responds to her, but I just don't understand why she'd continue to pursue him if he was already taken by a committed relationship? aren't there plenty of fish in the sea, seriously. - 25 days ago
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That would really bug me too! Some girls are more attracted to guys who are not available. Also, if she has a hard time meeting people, she might really want to hang on to your guy. I feel bad for you because it is going to be hard to keep trusting your guy if she keeps this up. If I were you, I would be careful because you don't want to sound paranoid or like you are monitoring his friends. Suggest calmly that he tells her straight that he is with you and therefore has less time for her - 25 days ago
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By the way, it is a good sign that you are not worried about your boyfriend. A lot of girls would be suspicious of him. You must have a good relationship. - 25 days ago
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We really do. he's my very best friend :) & ya it's really bothersome and sad that this girl knows him for a minute and instantly attaches herself to him - just why? Why does she feel the need to come in between two people in love? I really do trust him, I just don't want this drama. We've been through so much already both as a couple and individuals, that this is just so unnecessary and I don't see the point.. thanks for your insight, it was very helpful. - 25 days ago
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I'm sorry that you have to deal with this! Since you trust him, I think you should have a low-key talk with him where you say that this girl annoys you. Make it clear that you don't want to hang out with her. Also tell him you would feel better if he made it clear to her that he can't hang out as much any more because he is taken. Then leave it. If she doesn't back off, then she'll either get sick of getting no response from him and go bug someone else or he will get rude with her one day! - 25 days ago
You don't look like a girl... askin a serious question. but thanks for responding I suppose haha - 25 days ago
What Girls Said
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When: 24 days ago
no I would just blow him off. there are other guys that girl can flirt with, why lower yourself like that? girls like that are desperate debbies, notttt cute
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