Lol yeah your friend wants to know alright. Everyone's friend wants to know something. You're a girl, why don't you tell him? Okay, usually I agree with Natey boy down below me but that approach is too respectful or 1960's like. Don't have the "lily among thorns" approach because if the girl ends up not liking you then you're hurt like a lot of other people on this site who say, "I know she treats me like dirt, but how do I get her to be with me. " You can avoid this by keeping your options open so if need be, you can move elsewhere. The first thing you gotta do is flirt with her, tease her about anything and make it funny. "How are you? Oh wait, you're in heaven now that I'm here. " See what I mean? FLIRT. Next, after you've got her attraction towards you going it's all about making your move----You ask her out. After you take her out you can kiss her and things can lead to other things as you wish ( I would advise you to wait 'til marriage for sex, that's just what I do, but I can't make you do that. " If you're looking for a relationship type thing then do this. If you're looking for something physical like a hook up thing then just go to a party where most of the chicks are there to hook up and do the exact same thing.
"How are you? Oh wait, you're in heaven now that I'm here. "
Okay, just so you know, lines like this are pretty much a turnoff. I hear a line like that, my first thought is not that this guy's funny, but that he's self-absorbed and arrogant. I understand why guys might use lines like this, trying to lighten the mood, break the ice, etc. But any line that screams, "I'm absolutely amazing and you should want me" is going to have exactly the opposite effect. - 7 months ago
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Haha okay first of all, I would laugh after I said the line, you know what, it's not even a line it's true. And the girl always says to me, "Yes I feel great now that you're here" and then I move from there. You'd say the same girlie if I said it to you too :). It's not arrogant, it's not cheesy, it actually has an underlying principle which if you look at closely you can decipher. It says, "Hey I'm interested, are you? " And your response would be, "Yes Suave Man, I am! " - 7 months ago
Well, I've had similar lines used on me, and yeah, I'll admit it, I laughed. But it was an awkward laugh, the kind of laugh that means I'm looking for an escape route in case things turn sour. I understand the principle behind it, of course, but there are better ways to show that you're interested, at least for me. But hey, if this approach tends to work for you, keep on using it. Just saying that it probably wouldn't work on me. ;P Gotta admire your confidence, though! - 7 months ago
A couple of things here: 1) get a job if he doesn't have one, and make enough money to provide for a woman 2) stop calling it "get with her" - think of respect, leadership, and commitment 3) have the mentality that this girl is a "lily among thorns" - basically that she is a beauty and all others are off limits 4) determine at the outset that things won't get physical until either she's ready or until they get married - she's not an object or something to be toyed with 5) determine that honesty, transparency, character and integrity are the best policies and then act accordingly. 6) decide that everything he does is to edify her and make her life better, not worse - and that he should give her pleasant memories, not emotional scars. 7) take the initiative in the relationship and lead her; she should respond, but he needs to initiate and lead
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