There is nothing wrong with this... except... men (younger men, especially), have the tendency to have commitment issues. Sometimes this is for good reason. There's are fine lines between a flirty, interested woman, and a needy, desparate woman. (And since I don't know you personally, I will certainly not judge).
What I am trying to say is, everyone deserves to receive love - but sometimes not everyone is on the same pace of "giving" or "showing it". Men, especially, tend to worry about over-committing to a situation they are not sure of. This is pure survival instinct; we do it with our jobs, our homes, we do it in battle, etc. Some men are too distant (and I don't understand these sort either).
I was raised to say that when I found a Mademoiselle attractive that I should let her know, and if I really thought she was a daisy, than I shouldn't hide that from her at all.
Thank you, this is very helpful. I do understand not to be needy or desperate (I'm neither, I have a life!) My friend and I have a crush on each other and we are not doing anything about it since we are with other people, but now that I know that he likes me and he knows I like him, I don't see what is wrong with occasionally ending a text with "miss you," or "take care, hope your day goes well," or "I really like this...about you." I don't over flatter. I text him about once a week. - 15 days ago
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I don't see anything wrong with this... - 14 days ago
By making strong emotional statements, you put the other person in a position of either 1) an obligation to return the sentiment, or 2) trying to tap dance around what you said and change the topic.
This is very stressful for someone who doesn't feel the same. It's also stressful for someone who does feel the same deep down inside, but has difficulty verbalizing those feelings.
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