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GUYS!!! Why does doing this push you away?

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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)     When: 23 days ago
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Text messages telling you how much we miss you and how much we care for you and how much we want to be with you. What's wrong with telling you that?


Update: Thanks everyone! Yes, I know there is a line between interested and desperate. I don't do the clingy, whiny thing!    22 days ago

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Married-in-PA      When: 23 days ago
There is nothing wrong with this... except... men (younger men, especially), have the tendency to have commitment issues. Sometimes this is for good reason. There's are fine lines between a flirty, interested woman, and a needy, desparate woman. (And since I don't know you personally, I will certainly not judge).

What I am trying to say is, everyone deserves to receive love - but sometimes not everyone is on the same pace of "giving" or "showing it". Men, especially, tend to worry about over-committing to a situation they are not sure of. This is pure survival instinct; we do it with our jobs, our homes, we do it in battle, etc. Some men are too distant (and I don't understand these sort either).

I was raised to say that when I found a Mademoiselle attractive that I should let her know, and if I really thought she was a daisy, than I shouldn't hide that from her at all.
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Question Asker Thank you, this is very helpful. I do understand not to be needy or desperate (I'm neither, I have a life!) My friend and I have a crush on each other and we are not doing anything about it since we are with other people, but now that I know that he likes me and he knows I like him, I don't see what is wrong with occasionally ending a text with "miss you," or "take care, hope your day goes well," or "I really like this...about you." I don't over flatter. I text him about once a week. - 15 days ago
Answerer I don't see anything wrong with this... - 14 days ago

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dreamer010999      When: 22 days ago
Absolutely nothing! I would love that too!
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Anonymous User      When: 23 days ago
I'd kill for that! Sounds like you're a great person/girlfriend/wife, whatever you are
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UnknownFox      When: 23 days ago
I love it personally, unless your doing it excessively or as ty-lady said, he just doesn't like you the same way.
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jrm4646      When: 23 days ago
By making strong emotional statements, you put the other person in a position of either 1) an obligation to return the sentiment, or 2) trying to tap dance around what you said and change the topic.

This is very stressful for someone who doesn't feel the same. It's also stressful for someone who does feel the same deep down inside, but has difficulty verbalizing those feelings.
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Cartiphilus Your question has been answered. - 23 days ago

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ty-lady      When: 23 days ago
Nothing, unless the guy doesn't feel the same way or maybe just not yet!
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