I am really outgoing girl that likes to talk to everyone, include everyone, opinionated (but not to the point of annoyance, just sure of myself and at the same time can appreciate divergent view points), I consider myself warm & approachable & pretty intelligent. At the same time, I do not like to act or be snobby/superior. I worked wit this guy who was at first very shy and nervous around me - until, over time we worked more and more with each other and actually grew very close. We started to talk to each other all the time. We shared a lot of personal things (fears, the future, friendships, past relationships etc). We joke around with each other, flirt, and such. He is so kind and polite.
Lately, he has been telling me all about these girls who flirt with him. I usually just laugh or poke fun at him (cause honestly, it doesn't bother me one bit if other girls flirt with him). I don't know what is going on. I am soooo confused! HELP! Shy guys tell me what is going on.
The other day, while we were all drinking, his friend blurted out that he was crazy about me.
Am I reading into it too much?
We were both present when his friend blurted this out -- he got all quiet. And I replied that he only saw me as his friend/buddy (he told me last summer).
And now, I am wondering is it possible something has changed? How come this shy-guy has not brought up what his friend said? Could their be some truth in it? What should I do?
I totally agree with soxfan. This guy is trying to make you jealous, and his friend would only say that if he knew it was true (alcohol does amazing things to open people up!). You can bet that this dude likes you but is too timid to tell you so. If you like him, you could let him know for sure so he can get over his fear of approaching you. He probably doesn't know for sure whether you are into him in that way. I do think, however, that you should encourage him to be honest with his feelings if you are interested in him, because he needs to get over his fear and stop lying about the fact that he likes you.
Sounds like something has definitely changed. His friend wouldn't have blurted it out if not, and if his friend was out of line, the guy would have made a point to object.
As for mentioning other girls flirting with him, he is testing the water to see if that will make you jealous and/or hopefully get you more interested in him knowing that he is liked by girls and hope that you'll see the competition and act on it.
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