I have this guy friend. And we have texted each other a ton! We have gone to movies together and everything. When he texted me he always told me how gorgeous I am and always asked me to date him. Well the other night I texted him and said that I would go out wit him. He told me he had a girlfriend now. Then he said I have to tell you something but you can't tell anyone! I said of course I won't! He told me he wasn't a virgin anymore and said that he used protection and she wasn't pregnant and said he loves her soo much. Then later I asked what he was thinking about he said her. He use to always say me! I don't know if I should still talk to him. Or if I should never talk to him. If I should steel him or if I should just be friends! Help! Please. I do love him and he is sooo nice and funny and as a bonus he's gorgeous!
I'd say that he is playin you. I'd imagine that he has had many friend-girls that he hung out with, always hoping that one would date him, until one finally did. I don't think you are the only friend-girl that he has, that at one point he would have gone out with. He wants too much of everything. Even if he isn't physically cheating on his girlfriend with you, the fact that he is spending time with you is. Those precious hours alone with you, should have been spend with her.
If he is as nice as you say, then keep him around. My caution is this though. NEVER go out with him, and DO NOT fall in love with him again. If you want to continue to be his friend, then you need to drop your romantic feelings for him and just be friends. You don't want him. But, as you pointed out, he did value you enough to not lie to you, so keep him as a FRIEND, and nothing more, and you will be fine.
He's a player hun. He's playing both sides of the fence. He's cheating on his girlfriend. Is that the kind of guy you want. If he will cheat on his girlfriend, he will cheat on you!
O my gosh! You are rite! U totally brought me back to reality! He is cheating on her! U are soo cool! Hey not to bother you or anything I have another question. What should I tell him to never talk to me again! Or should I still be friends wit him? But you know he did get the guts to tell me the truth! Its soo hard Please help!. Again? - 9 months ago
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I would tell him that he needs to stick with his girlfriend and that what he's doing isn't right. Tell him that you're no longer interested in him. It will be tough, but just be honest with him. You deserve a guy who won't cheat on you hun! - 9 months ago
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