Theres this guy who has a crush on me for a long time - a senior - btw he's just passed out and moved to another state - and I'm a junior. I heard he dint have a great rep in college since he kinda had several one night stands and all previously and that's why girls in college kept away from him and I was also asked to keep away from him.
But obviously I not only liked the attention he gave- like staring, being wherever I was, asking his friends to snoop on me, looking down if I came face to face with him ( all the signs exhibited of a shy guy liking a girl when he had the rep of being a player type of guy). He never used a pick up line on me or anything to say he wanted to hook up. I gradually started getting interested in knowing and the bad boy rep was intriguing cause he didnt behave at all cocky and touchy - hell ,he never even tried to make conversation but would just simply come very close and stand. But several times I did move away making him feel like I don't like him- this was made worse when I actually said some nasty things about him cause then I thought his behavior was stalkerish.
But I dint act upon my like and time flew and he's passed out. Even in fact, two months back when I tried to congratulate him for his basketball, he seemed kicked about it and tried to make idle conversation even in front of the girl he was so-called dating. He tried hard to impress and even teased me which sowed that he still liked me even though he was going out with this other girl who he kinda disregarded and ignored throughout specially after I talked to him. But even after that, he still dint have the courage to talk to me or approach but would always hang his head down or look at my feet if he saw me approaching.
So I decided to get to know him better through facebook or something but when I sent him an invite like 2-3 days back, he still has not replied ( and he comes online everyday that I'm 100% sure) to accept my invite. Is it cos he's too shocked and guessed that I would never invite him as a friend - so he can't believe it? Cause if he has gotten over me, then he shouldnt have a problem adding me like how other guys would.
What id going on in his mind- or should I wait for more time cos its been only like 3 days back.
Homebody doesn't want to seem too happy about the invite that would be lame to him. Don't think about it to much he'll add you soon so don't even worry about it.
It's possible that he just doesn't want to seem too eager. I mean when someone you like talks to you on msn or on facebook or texts you, you don't reply back that second, you don't want it to seem like you have been waiting for it, (well that's how I am). Don't read too much into it, just wait it out, if he doesn't reply after a few more days send him a private message on facebook, jokingly asking 'what the heck! ' but make sure he knows you not being rude about it.
Lol, that's totally what I do when girls I like txt me XD. Hell I've even timed my self to wait at least a minute before replying idle messages. And yeah, wait it out. If he doesn't add you in a week, then try to figure out what's wrong. - 9 months ago
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