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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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I've seen a lot of different ways to approach girls and it seems that no matter what people say girls seem to either think its creepy or they give general advice that doesn't work for everyone. Another thing I want to know is what to say I have never been really good at humor/communicating with girls I have wanted to take on a date. I have had a lot of friends that are girls but never a girlfriend. So please give me any advice on how I can change this.

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IndianRose (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
I'm not very shy but when I see a guy I like, I'm not just gonna go up to him and chat, that's not how I do it. I just take a piece of paper, write a little sentence on it (but that's not even necessary) and my email address and cellphone number. I give the note myself, just very calm and simple or if I'm in a shy mood I let a friend give it to him saying "this is from a friend of mine".

The reason I like this method is because it is mysterious and if the person has a partner or just isn't interested, no problem, you didn't make a fool of yourself and the person can do whatever they want with it.

And if you have a lot of girls that are your friend, I'm sure one day you will have a girlfriend
:-) Just stay very relaxed and maybe look at how other guys attract girls to get some inspiration. Unfortunately there isn't one magical way to get to the heart of a girl but I like it when a guy is very masculine in his way of acting, very calm, independent and unpredictable (little surprises or things you don't expect him to say or do).
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areb-2006 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Well, 1) look for common ground between you and the girl you want to talk to, 2) Approach her as if the only thing you want is friendship and nothing else has crossed your mind. For example, I had a guy come up to me once that I had only seen but once and out of nowhere smile and introduce himself. But there was a vibe about him that threw me off because 1)The way he looked at me and his approach told me that he wanted something else than a friendship, 2) there was no common ground between us whatsoever. I had another guy from one of my classes come up to me and he didn't even bother to do all the formal introduction. He "naturally" came up to me and asked me about the work in the class that we're both taking and then striked a conversation that lasted for hours. He may like me and that's ok, but I didn't get a creepy vibe from him. Look for common ground.
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areb-2006 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Well, look for common ground between you and the girl you want to talk to. For example, I had a guy come up to me once that I had only seen but once and out of nowhere smile and introduce himself..but there was a vibe about him that threw me off because there was no common ground between us whatsoever. I had another guy from one of my classes come up to me and he didn't even bother to do all the formal introduction. He naturally came up to me and asked me about the work in the class that we're both taking and then striked a conversation that lasted for hours. Look for common ground.
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rachiee (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
The best thing to do is to be confident and walk up to her. Don't do it at random times though! That's what would be considered creepy. If you guys are in the same area, or doing the same thing say hey to her. And strike up a conversation about whatever you're doing (ex: if you're in a store, ask her what she thinks about a shirt, if you're at school and in the same class ask her things about the stuff you're learning about). A really important thing is to be funny, and make her laugh when you talk to her. She'll remember you, and will smile about it. So she'll have that friendly feeling towards you.

There's not really a way you can become funny if you're not naturally. Saying random things sometimes is funny though, so try that. Don't be nervous! She can tell and sometimes its cute, but it just makes things awkward for the both of you.

You'll find a girl. You just haven't found the right one for you yet and that's okay. Don't give up, she's out there (:
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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
You know what the best way is just a simple "Hi", compliment the girl, there's no need for lines, they just make me think that the guys pretty lame and trying way too had.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
If you are alone eating or something and is he's alone. Go up to her and as if you could sit with her. If she says no then go and find someone else. If she says yes ask her things like what's her name, what she likes doing on weekends etc. Then if she gets comfortable invite her to go somewhere like to the movies and then get her phone number. And be sensitive with them like don't say nothing stupid or nothing. And listen to them the most important.
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verbotenmemory (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
First of all, if you are even remotely asking for something along the lines of a "perfect pick up line". Forget about it. Pick up lines turn OFF girls for the most part, and the ones that go for them are either really out of it or they want to manipulate you for something because they know they've got you in the palm of their hand.
aside from that, a simple "hi" works just fine as a greeting. Especially at any social environment such as a party, or a bar/club, concert, or anything like that. There's nothing wrong with being honest and say something along the lines of "hey, I thought you look and I just want to say hi. " if they are even remotely interested in you, they would probably say something back.
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